Outside of my friends don't xyz group of friends and they don't like us either type s***. Once. Saved the nigga from getting beat up just for cuz to snitch on me about having a lighter and started f***ing with him like everybody else, but just for that day

i have a similar experience but irl in school. i wasn’t the main guy but i did contribute a lot to dunking on the guy(s).

i didn’t understand at the time because i thought it was fair game (because everyone kinda made fun of each other) looking back at it now, i see those guys were targeted disproportionately, and it 100% classes as bullying and it must have been traumatic.

in theory i would want to apologize too, but in practice i think i’m too much of coward. i saw one of the guys once in a store (at the beginning of college) and the way the guy froze up when he saw me f***ed me up, like i legit gave this guy ptsd? i saw another guy too, i actually walked up to him to say sorry, but he ignored me. he looked rough as hell too. felt guilty af because did i contribute to that?

Yea i did and i really wish i didnt. Makes me sad when i think about it. There was one instance where i was f***ing mean do a kid for no real reason and fat shamed him and all, and he startef to cry. He didnt even tried to defend himself, just sat there and cried. I know i apologized later to him and we even hang out multiple times but i still hope that he doesnt remember it. Everytime i think of that moment it breaks my heart a lil bit.

I didn’t bully her. I was friends with the person who did and I was unaware. I was cool with the caller and her sentiments were “I wish you defended me in public like you did in private” She didn’t know the bully I was “friends” with literally bullied me and we were not close. We bonded over shared trauma and now we’re besties

But it’s interesting you can be a bully by association and omission

I was a piece of s*** when I was 12 (most of my class were bullies tbh)

I came to terms with it in high school and apologized to each person I disturbed, luckily I’m in good terms with all of them nowadays

yep

i was ruthless to some kid
but some of em were mean to me so war is war

True

Bullying is a rites to passage

Being bullied too

I was called gay so much I became gay. Living a great life

There you go. Maybe Rasputia went on a diet after I called her Precious

Oh sir 😭 No

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Glad you can be you

The one hurtful thing I most regret doing to someone wasn't even bullying but more like a betrayal of trust.

Back in high school, I had an online friend, a girl, that I was super close with for 2-3 years. We were really tight. Like, the guy she was with actually hit me up for advice on her I wanted to date her and we flirted all the time but she had been burned in an online relationship before and didn't want to go that route again. I was like whatever, do you, and we went on as friends for another year-plus

One day we're having one of our evening chats, everything is cool, and she says "Oh hey, I think I'm bi. I'm interested in girls." The way she was saying it, and considering how much she trusted me, I was probably one of the first people she told. Her mom was really strict to the point of abuse and coming out was really tough for her.

I'm like 16 at the time, dumb as s*** and pretty homophobic, not to mention salty about the nature of our relationship, so I come back at her with "nahhh that's just that high school experimenting s***, you'll grow out of it " then she flipped out, we argued for a while and I didn't hear from her again for a long time. I was too stubborn to apologize.

2 years later, I'm engaged and buying s*** for my wedding, and she messages me out of the clear blue telling me she's still into girls This girl was nuts but I loved her. I apologized sincerely and we talked for a bit, but things were never the same. We were older, both in serious relationships and that romantic tension wasn't there the way it was at the beginning.

I hit her up a month ago and she acted like nothing had ever happened when I alluded to it. She said how happy she was to hear from me and things were fine. I think back on the friendships I've lost over the years and mostly don't regret anything, but that one could have gone a lot differently if I hadn't been such a salty little b****. I wouldn't have ever shot my shot, but I lost years with a good friend over something dumb.

called this one girl a fat pig after she tried to close the door on me and she threw my bag around the room and tossed everything out

called her unstable afterwards and s*** got messy

more of a beef than bullying but still

On god

they dont even know lil bro !

Did my fair share of cyber bullying in high school that I’m not proud of. But back then Twitter was the Wild West of social media and it was a dog eat dog world then lol

I never have, no.

I get you. Not much you can do now unless he asks for an apology or something. You can't retroactively change the mistakes they made in response to your actions. High school is a toxic ass place and it ruins some people. Best thing you can do now is act on what you've learned.

This is absolutely bonkers

fr ruthless f***ers

I'm pretty chill now but I was a straight up a****** before KTT