real. Stay strong and honest with yourself b
This is it. Always be honest with yourself first and see what it is ur lacking but at the same time, what effort it is that u did put in
Usually more than not
Youll notice u be losing all ur energy and worth cause its u lettin ppl get too close
Everyone a stranger until they said "hi" and gave u a pat,then they become a "friend", but what did u or do u actually know about them or they true intentions
"You know its real when u are who u think u are"
Not who they want u to be or what everyone thinks its "required" to be
True glo up starts there
Who am i? Whats my mission? My worth? How do i deal with my shortcomings? How do i make myself so valuable, that it's currency cannot be bought, merely imitated, because i am that person they look for and need.
If anything my glo up showed how fake and insecure people are
How easy it was for them to see me as a just another stupid ugly black kid
Into this charismatic smooth talking handsome black guy
Why? Cause people clinge onto fake worthless aspects too much in life to cope with whatever insecurities they have
Alot of people blame their non success on looks(non racial then i mean) and therefor devalue everything and get jealous
Really, alot of toxicity
So if ur doing it to impress people be warned, the world will treat u "better" but they'll always think ull be or have "better" cause u look "better"...
Meaning loses worth at the sight of beauty, thats why people rather not question it, but prefer to enjoy it
Hence why it should come from within
1) change mindset (meditate + read more)
2) skincare / bodycare
3) exercise + diet
4) bare minimum grooming + well fitting clothes (learn how to cut ur own hair trust me)
5) feel comfortable being by yourself (ie. have hobbys)
6) b**** city
A negro aint been smashing nothing nor dates this year smh. Last year was solid, year before same. This year, wow. Shorty don't even want to go on a date, someone provide the formula to glow up
It’s not about having a glo up necessarily, it’s just the nature of the dating scene right now. Unless you’re super attractive or look like you have money, the experience is lackluster out here for both men and women. It’s a fast food era of hookups and ghosting right after or getting ghosted mid connection.
The only thing you can really do is just keep at it and hope to make a meaningful connection or reflect and see if you lack somewhere in appearance or personality
If anything my glo up showed how fake and insecure people are
How easy it was for them to see me as a just another stupid ugly black kid
Into this charismatic smooth talking handsome black guy
Why? Cause people clinge onto fake worthless aspects too much in life to cope with whatever insecurities they have
Alot of people blame their non success on looks(non racial then i mean) and therefor devalue everything and get jealous
Really, alot of toxicity
So if ur doing it to impress people be warned, the world will treat u "better" but they'll always think ull be or have "better" cause u look "better"...
Meaning loses worth at the sight of beauty, thats why people rather not question it, but prefer to enjoy it
Hence why it should come from within
Real talk, hearing a glimpse of your story and you having this leadership mindset is powerful. Much love and respect. Jesus is key.
Everything starts within, that’s where the kingdom, sovereignty and treasure lies at.
You’re spitting facts man 💪🏿
If anything my glo up showed how fake and insecure people are
How easy it was for them to see me as a just another stupid ugly black kid
Into this charismatic smooth talking handsome black guy
Why? Cause people clinge onto fake worthless aspects too much in life to cope with whatever insecurities they have
Alot of people blame their non success on looks(non racial then i mean) and therefor devalue everything and get jealous
Really, alot of toxicity
So if ur doing it to impress people be warned, the world will treat u "better" but they'll always think ull be or have "better" cause u look "better"...
Meaning loses worth at the sight of beauty, thats why people rather not question it, but prefer to enjoy it
Hence why it should come from within
This is why internet friends are so genuine and valuable
Because there's nothing to judge about you other than what you actually think
1) change mindset (meditate + read more)
2) skincare / bodycare
3) exercise + diet
4) bare minimum grooming + well fitting clothes (learn how to cut ur own hair trust me)
5) feel comfortable being by yourself (ie. have hobbys)
6) b**** city
This
But it's a long process trust me
You will need to be disciplined and well informed all throughout
Also keep in mind that if you're doing this JUST for others you'll transform into an obnoxious version of yourself, putting down those around you just for the validation of other people
You'll see how people treat you more nicely just because of some physical changes you made and notice more fakeness in the world
But you'll change drastically and love life even more
This
But it's a long process trust me
You will need to be disciplined and well informed all throughout
Also keep in mind that if you're doing this JUST for others you'll transform into an obnoxious version of yourself, putting down those around you just for the validation of other people
You'll see how people treat you more nicely just because of some physical changes you made and notice more fakeness in the world
But you'll change drastically and love life even more
Also you'll have to work very hard for it
Some days you'll be so tired to do it that you'll say "yeah I'll do this tomorrow" and you'll probably end up not doing it for weeks
It's hard but you gotta stay focused on what you want to achieve and go through this process, such is life
Thought title said how do I grow up 😂
WAIT thats actually th answer OP
you gotta grow up to glow up