i speak before i think, so sometimes when i have a convo i say the most crazy s*** man. Sometimes the s*** i say dont make any sense. I also seem to be kinda confused well, people often say im confused.

I also cant make my mind up, I always change my mind its crazy

Idk how to fix this

You’re probably being way too hard on yourself bro, maybe you’ve internalized what other people have said

You can try writing to clarify your thinking more

Don’t be discouraged, you probably still don’t sound as dumb as both of the candidates we have running for president this November Never give up

Be like me and choose to keep sounding dumb

how do you deal with it? like isnt it annoying that people laugh at the s*** u say?

you may have people around you who put you down or think less of you since you second guess your own intelligience.

i dont know i got a lot of s*** on my mind that i cant share with many people, so when I was at a party some days ago and drunk I f***ing cracked and told this girl all i have on my mind. Lowkey it felt good and she was very cool about it so its aight. But i feel like speaking with people (close to me) about the stuff on my mind would really be healthy. Idk if this even makes sense to you lmao

people tell me im a confused guy, like i was with this b**** once and it was boring af so i was in my own thoughts, while we were walking to the bus. So i accidentally walked over red, and she started calling me confused and told me im in my own world.

maybe so hmm
do people put you down, like your friends and family like in the past?

Stop accepting that behavior as what it is and say less. You are clearly aware of the behavior soo..

You might actually be ed

like people at my work do, but not my friends. I do be talking lot without thinking and goofing around at work which may make me seem dumb lol. The s*** just comes out bro i never think before i speak i gotta work on that

bro i used to be a quiet guy with zero friends back in the day and never opened my mouth. But now i became social as f*** man so i cant stop talking. But yeah i think it comes down to me not knowing when to shut the f*** up

What's some of that crazy s*** you said

Don't confuse being social with running ya mouth (no disrespect.)

like most of the s*** i say is just to make them laugh which often works but random s*** that you dont tell strangers

i think the real problem is that i cant shut the f*** up. I literally cant tho i need to be social and talk with people. 3 years ago you couldnt make me open my mouth if you were a stranger now i cant shut up

Don’t speak

Gotcha. Have quality convos with people close and be economical in other settings. Most people turned off by someone who talks too much anyway

Just take it. You are already self aware about that so just be honest about and dont try to hide it. Maybe people will find you more trustworthy and open because of it. It would he worse if you didnt know you sound dumb and just kept going without any reflection. If you think you just talked s*** just apologize or make a joke out of it.

Shout outs to my friend who is like that and once tried to convince a girl at a party that because of the principle of energy conservation people dont actually die because energy never gets lost.

you smoke?

couple off times a year

so i should talk less, and think before i speak

What made you change from bein the quiet guy to being outspoken

You will naturally talk less if you have quality convos and save the rest for ktt