Some people do their skincare so consistently, have no remorse spending tons of money on expensive luxury clothing, and act like they're the boss of every place they go to. No bit of anxiety whatsoever.
We're told everyone has insecurities, but these people carry themselves like they have none.
I like treating myself to some nice clothes every now and then, but I think long and hard to see if my intended purchase is justified. Same goes for other things I might spend my money on.
I try to take care of myself by hitting the gym, maintaining good skin, and shower every day, but I feel like anything beyond that is pure vanity and a waste of time.
Thats because having confidence is all about being one with your insecurities,once u know that youll realize people with the loud mouths are s***
U can only obtain full confident being vulnerable
How can u test ur own limits when u have never been laughed at for an idea u really believe in?
Or when u faced public scrutiny? Or everyone was against you?
Until that time ur just in ur comfort zone and u do follow the masses
Its when u work yourself through this,that u realize; people just talk but are scared thats why they talk
Cause they HAVE something to LOSE
When u confident u dont
"What? Nigga wanna laugh again? Okay cool, next one please :yawn"
They dont validation anymore, cause they know how the cycle;
Ppl laugh cause they don't understand---->months later they follow cause they be catching up
Just take cold showers and all ur problems will be solved
nah that s*** is ass, i did it for like 4 months straight, it just feeds you a jolt of energy and feeling awake afterwards
i got calluses on my hands cause i held the sun uneven
Do I know you lol?
cold showers and no fap is some bro science bullshit
go out and get some p**** if you want to feel confident
Just take cold showers and all ur problems will be solved
im warming up my shower now
i feel good after cold showers
but it be so comfy in the hot water(:
It’s not a bad thing. Spending money on clothes just leaves you with less money in your bank account.
Clothes may get a potential partner to notice you, but once they find out you don’t have the money to take them out to eat, they mean little.
Invest in yourself in other ways (gym and eating healthy are worthy things to spend money on). Luxury clothes, are not
They are the worst investment, they depreciate in value, and go out of style
cold showers and no fap is some bro science bullshit
go out and get some p**** if you want to feel confident
That p**** not gone validate you it’s just another check mark in s*** you thought was important but really it’s not
Thing is though, people find therapy in s*** like that. Going through the routine of taking care of yourself, it becomes almost like a hobby for people. It’s something they enjoy and for the most part can’t be taken away from them.
If it’s not for you, that’s not a knock on you. It’s just not what you really into like that.
Thing is though, people find therapy in s*** like that. Going through the routine of taking care of yourself, it becomes almost like a hobby for people. It’s something they enjoy and for the most part can’t be taken away from them.
If it’s not for you, that’s not a knock on you. It’s just not what you really into like that.
Think it only serves to be healthy to be into that
You stop being insecure when you realize you don't have to prove anything to anyone.