this a not self pity thread. its about self control and discipline

I've been giving into my deepest urges. a lot of them are self destructive habits. for example, when i engage with women, i have this weird mommy complex. i think its my insecurity about being immature and not taking on the role of an entirely responsible man. i want my mommy to love my unconditionally and nurture me until death. i no longer want to treat woman that way to get off
it feels good to say and do things that shouldnt make me feel the way they do. & girls let me get away with it because im super qt, but i cant keep living this way or else it will escalate
its just a lot of things that i've trained myself into believing that i just want to rework my entire thinking

tl;dr have any of you had to completely reset ur brain?

Might wanna try some Jesus breh

Read about subconscious

Don’t get mad at yourself if you fail. Just keep working on the discipline everyday

When you feel like doing the old habits , stop and remind yourself that those old habits will not get you closer to your goals

If you can not control that, you don’t want to change bad enough ,so really ask if yourself if you’re committed to it

Something that helped me was recording my own affirmations ( I am confident .. I am happy.etc)
And I would sleep with it playing , workout to it , etc .

What you constantly tell yourself is what you become /view yourself as

tfw no mommy gf

You won’t learn how to be a man on KTT

Do you know what a man is?

good post. last year i would post sticky notes on my walls, go to the gym, combat sport, etc but it was all for the sake of a b****
n i fall off easily. good post tho

i honestly think my problem is common but i just feel like i know whats steps i should take to solve it but it isn't an instant reward so i dont follow thru

Use to do the same , for women smh lol . Once you do it for yourself you stick with it and still get the women

Sounds like you need discipline. Gotta build a vision of who you wanna be. I know, super ambiguous, but idk you so i cant go in depth. Youre only getting older so start now so you dont ask why you didnt 10 years later.

Sorry op but I’m crine at this whole mommy complex thing

good post bro

i believe this is built in our dna. our lovers become mothers after all

Nofap

live by the coom, die by the coom

i cant. i got 300 vids on my phub playlist

I always wondered who made those

stop playing games with yourself...

do the work

It’s probably because you’ve been handed everything your whole life OP

Which means you’ll never survive after you graduate high school/college

I listen to sza - ctrl

I’m not understanding what a “mommy complex” is. Like you want a b**** to straight up baby you? Or?

Cause I can say I’m the type that loves when it’s 50/50 and a b**** will go out of her way to spoil me sometimes too, of course, that s*** jus feels good for the soul. But yea I wouldn’t call it a “mommy complex” so I’m not sure what you mean.