FOREVA

1w

only one way; you don’t

Jbreezyondeck

7d

Distance man. I know it’s hard but some people just want to be miserable

HaroldsChicken

7d

The key thing is not getting complacent with it. There are people in life where they are consumed with being right . Will say "if this bad thing happens I will say I told you so". So in their mind part of them manifest bad things happening to themselves or others so they can say they are right rather than wishing for the best for themselves or others. Have to find the humans that wish good for yourself and others. Those that truly care . If someone is too numb its just damaging

Jbreezyondeck

7d

I agree. It’s a fine line especially with people you are close with but there is a limit to which you can help someone

HaroldsChicken

7d

I mean a lot of people its due to d*** abuse, trauma, overworked or life just beats their ass. That is why I try to get friends into positive task. Go on walks . Go to the gym. Get outside. find a way to keep the mind active and not just destroy with them

Professor Headass

1w

You ever have a family member or someone in your life that you love dearly but they are consistently so negative and do so much complaining that it makes it difficult to be around them? How do you fix this dynamic without offending them?

We’re doing through grief so it’s an extra sensitive time but every time I’ve tried to speak on it with the people in question it just makes things worse, I’m usually pretty good at just accepting things are how they are but listening to negativity so often just becomes draining when i have my own head full of problems, any of you dealt with this before and how?

Valentine

1w

been like that with every woman I dated longterm due to anxiety/depression. there’s nothing you can do bro, that’s just how they are. Better to keep your space and peace. it’s deadass a repetitive cycle that you can almost watch break down back into the negativity with triggers even if you manage to get them heavily on the staying positive side

LORD ALFREDO

3h

This why I don't date b****es with obvious mental health issues.

Be FEINING to speedrun a relationship to hell.

As soon as I peep, I help them complete their objective...

Valentine

3h

all my girls were pill poppers

like 3-4 EVERY DAY for anxiety/depression managed to get one ex off the pills for like a solid 6 months, she was just living and smoking and she was mad happy and getting thicker. one trigger later and it was back to the pills and eventually a break up smdh. never again, it’s not worth it

LORD ALFREDO

3h

I'm empathetic but the ROI on those situations is so low.

Factor in psychological profile, environment, family history, & the possibility that it's hereditary?

Not worth it...

noticer

1w

cut them off

Valentine

3h

I was 15 watching my first GF go through a pill stack for anxiety/depression/anger my fault king, I was pre-destined to have hope for them but not anymore lmaooo

it’s DEFINITELY a combination of family/environment and it being hereditary. could almost see exactly which parent they got different problems from too. I come from a happy, loving, pretty large family so I was just green for a while enough heartbreaks later, I’m good now lmfao