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  • Nov 22, 2019
    wizzz305

    Oh never mind, was thinking you tryna hit or something lmaooo

    she ain't my type

  • Nov 22, 2019

    I'm 23, can't imagine making friends outside of work tbh, and even work friends I suppose they stay at work only

  • Nov 22, 2019
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    Idk bout y'all, but I have a bunch of people that only hit me up cus they need something

    That fakery is worst then lonelyness tbh

  • Nov 22, 2019
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    12AM

    stop bein ah weirdo

    @OP try the Rave Scene, understand Beat Per Minute you'll get the music and better yet the people get you, don't even worry or try to understand how to fit in. Be yourself. Go Crazy. Chug Sirracha sauce during a moment u watch people get hype. just dont look weird.

    sirracha sauce is some underground rave slang or something?

  • Nov 22, 2019
    Stephanie

    I've been struggling with feelings of loneliness lately and realized that I don't really have any friends outside of work acquaintances or online relationships. Those things are appreciated, but they're not the same thing as having someone to talk to in real life. How do y'all manage to reach out to people once everyone has their own lives?

    Can't say I've done any of this myself, but...

    If you have a hobby or interest, see if there's a community for it in your area. You can also get into new hobbies and interests.

    Conventions are also great events/places to talk to people.

  • Nov 22, 2019
    Stephanie

    I've been struggling with feelings of loneliness lately and realized that I don't really have any friends outside of work acquaintances or online relationships. Those things are appreciated, but they're not the same thing as having someone to talk to in real life. How do y'all manage to reach out to people once everyone has their own lives?

    Can't say I've done any of this myself, but...

    If you have a hobby or interest, see if there's a community for it in your area. You can also get into new hobbies and interests.

    Conventions are also great events/places to talk to people.

  • Nov 22, 2019
    wizzz305

    Idk bout y'all, but I have a bunch of people that only hit me up cus they need something

    That fakery is worst then lonelyness tbh

    whats a ''hru'' rt
    'oh ill smoke you out jus to see you'

  • Nov 22, 2019
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    sirracha sauce is some underground rave slang or something?

    people in the rave scene do something at every Festival, something I personally experienced some guy dancing with deoderant sticks offering it to people at Lost Lands 2018
    apparently dude gives donations to homeless and s***
    cool guy follow each other on twitter i think
    the video: youtube.com/watch?v=xl9G9-pgrBI
    (35k views; and like 40k went)

    but yeah, theres something every one. siracha sauce was at EDC 2018 aswell. Sum new funny anyways

    i'll stop spamming this thread. yall get my poiint. im telling you if anyone is lonely and jus needing random people hugging you and s***, go to a Fuccking rave. @Stephanie start here en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BPM_(Beats_per_Minute) to enjoy the music Vs enjoying the people, and wear ear protection , don't do d**** (if you do;safely and foremost not from random guys, watch your drinks)

  • Nov 22, 2019
    schizoidkid

    same. ill be ur friend op

    27 and i cut out everyone from my life.
    feelsbad

    It’s a blessing and a curse

  • Nov 22, 2019

    Ever since graduating HS ive lost interest in friendship so idk

  • Nov 22, 2019

    i have about 4 solid ones and theyre all from college

  • Nov 22, 2019

    I've been content with my own time, realized I prefer spending time by myself over the last few years. Kind of over the bar/party thing unless it's for a drum & bass night.

    If you produce music you can meet people locally who also produce. Just post on local messageboards/Facebook pages.

    Volunteering is also a great way to meet people. I've gotten a few numbers while volunteering, but making deep meaningful relationships takes work and a couple months time.

  • Nov 22, 2019
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    You know what’s lowkey the best but worst place to make friends? A cruise ship. Going at any age of like 5 til maybe mid 20’s you’re guaranteed to have best friends for the whole trip. You first meet in the club, then find stuff to do with them throughout the day, then hangout after the club drunk and getting pizza at 3 am, then when the cruise is over you’re all sad you never going to see them again

    Believe it or not, there’s about 2 people who live where I live though I met from the last one I went in. One girl I was interested in who got a boyfriend shortly after I actually ran into at a club not to long ago in town haha and another guy who lives close, but I never really hit him up after. I have most of the people I befriended on social media and interact sometimes.

  • Nov 22, 2019
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    Wak

    You know what’s lowkey the best but worst place to make friends? A cruise ship. Going at any age of like 5 til maybe mid 20’s you’re guaranteed to have best friends for the whole trip. You first meet in the club, then find stuff to do with them throughout the day, then hangout after the club drunk and getting pizza at 3 am, then when the cruise is over you’re all sad you never going to see them again

    Believe it or not, there’s about 2 people who live where I live though I met from the last one I went in. One girl I was interested in who got a boyfriend shortly after I actually ran into at a club not to long ago in town haha and another guy who lives close, but I never really hit him up after. I have most of the people I befriended on social media and interact sometimes.

    Cruises are awesome. I've met some really good friends there.

  • Nov 22, 2019

    Glad i atleast have a girlfriend now. We play video games and I watch wrestling with her so she’s my best friend. I still keep plenty of space though so it’s not like I need to see her all the time even though I can lol but it’s nice.

  • Nov 22, 2019

    Get a hobby, go to work and make friends, and parties

  • Nov 22, 2019
    JT is Electric

    Cruises are awesome. I've met some really good friends there.

    Real ones know. Literally going to the same place everyday for 5-6 days in a row, you’re bound to make friends with a bunch of people.

  • Nov 22, 2019

    Me and my closets friends been cool goin from elementary. This is the oddest thing about adult life is that, your rarely feel like anyone has the time to get to know you, or build a relationship.

  • Nov 22, 2019
    KELYE

    For me (when I’m sober) it’s usually at parties or other things I go to. I often see a person multiple times and we’ll eventually start talking more and more

    When I’m drunk I usually talk to every random on the street and I think I’ve made a lot of friends that way

    Keyle ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • Nov 22, 2019
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    KELYE

    For me (when I’m sober) it’s usually at parties or other things I go to. I often see a person multiple times and we’ll eventually start talking more and more

    When I’m drunk I usually talk to every random on the street and I think I’ve made a lot of friends that way

    I barely ever see you anymore are you alright

  • Nov 22, 2019

    Where do you live OP?

  • idk friends friends is prolly hard,its more contacts u make
    friends friends i have rn are those i been knew from my teens others are contacts

    just going out to bars, friends of friends, sportsclub,music related folks etc...

  • Nov 22, 2019

    you just gotta be like a kid. kids dont have pride. remember asking other kids youd never met if they liked hot wheels or some s***? if they said no, cool. if they said yes, instant friends.

  • Nov 23, 2019

    Don’t be weird lol