bro you spend 1/3rd of your life at work, you might as well have good relationships with these people

Always depends on the person, some of them take work way too seriously and see you as competition rather than a comrade

I make new friends hooping at the park or meeting people when I go to concerts and comedy shows . I’m 31 turn 32 in august

yeah I mean you ain't gonna be friends with everyone. but most people are like you, stuck at a s***kicker job they dont like looking for others who feel similarly.

have a friend who moved to la without really knowing too many ppl out there and he started taking pottery classes and met a lot of ppl thru that.. even has a gf of 2+ years because of that pottery class

U right, but I Wish I could relate with my current job

Use social media

Oh wait it doesn't actually fit that purpose

@op specifically needs to be in serious therapy before talking to another human being tbh.

In reality, you just talk to people lol. Ppl make new friends at 40 jut by working similar jobs and going to similar places or activities.

But op specifically, YOU got some other s*** you need to work out ( otherwise you wouldnt have made this thread to begin with)

If you haven’t already found even just 1 person you could actually trust, you’re better off alone, trust me

Why not? Lol

Them niggas weird as s*** and some don't shower often enough. I used to be in a writing group then f***ed a nigga sister and he did a whole unfunny 7 minute set about me while I was there and never talked to me about it

I’m gonna take a pottery class and change my life 🥹

bro this not a joke he even started a side business selling his ceramics

Bro made too many worrying posts itt and relationship sxn tbh

You should be focused on making babies instead.

this the way. do things that put u around other ppl with a thing to focus on. dance classes, pottery classes, even s*** like mf birdwatch tours. we're old we gotta start acting like it

I been meeting a lot of likeminded individuals here and we been doing meet ups and s***. Been really rewarding losers.is

OP age and avy ratio off the charts

we??

If you stay home and do nothing interesting with your life, you'll get zero friends

Go out and do something you like to do and find people with same interest

My newer friends are mostly from music and weight lifting

Public bathhouses