There’s this girl that I thought I was close with that I fell out with earlier this year. I finally hit her up a couple months back and we got cool again. After all the f***ed s*** she said during the argument (and I can’t lie like I didn’t match her energy) we moved past it, and we never spoke on it. The thing is now I feel like she doesn’t actually value me as a friend or anything at all. Acts interested but take a whole day to reply in the middle of conversations, when she came back to town she kinda blew me off cause my car f***ed up. She used to just pull up. I got mad love for her but I’m honestly just f***ing done forcing this s***. How can I just forget she ever existed in my life?

look at all the pain she's caused you. why does she deserve to fill, and waste, the valuable space in your head that can be spent on more beautiful memories, pursuits, and thoughts?

Get more busy, focus on the negative things about her when you have intrusive thoughts, and expect it to take a long time for you to forget

plant flowers where compost has formed

Damn this has to be a earl sweatshirt bar, fire

love

Shut the hell up man..

Might get that tatted

Set boundaries and enforce them. Any of your own resistance to enforcing those boundaries should be investigated so you can fix your issues.

How bout you ask her whats up like an adult if it matters that much to you

From all your other posts, you never seem to bring anything meaningful to the table. My apologies you always fall short

Yo this actually touched me, f*** that’s deep

chin up dude, life is the longest thing you'll experience even if it only lasts a moment u feel

take it all in

And then you doubled it…

please fam

Cause why tf you in your bag tonight

I’ve been in my room quarantining since Sunday

My PS4 controller is f***ed so I can only go on my phone, laptop, write, exercise, and meditate

Really weird mental space as of late

damn.

Boo hoo bro don't you know men aren't supposed to have feelings

Focus on her flaws and the way she treated you. Realize that you deserve better from the people in your life. Makes it easier to not give a f*** about her

i’m ngl you got some solid advice in here and things to keep im mind but there’s a chance you’re like me and you have to experience s*** yourself to learn from it

Bro turned into Socrates

dm