ghosting

7mo

I dont think its pointless, but I also didn't mean to personally attack you either

I just dont think it was the best advice since op is obviously lacking some sense of community

HURRY UP K DOG

7mo

You only gave OP 2 cents so he had to work on Christmas to get his son Timmy a present

hybrid supreme

7mo

I completely agree, and I guess that's probably the part Scrooge (and all of us in general) need to focus on. Focus on actually loving ourselves and becoming a pleasant person to be around because the money can only make someone stay for so long if there isn't real love there.

But idk. Alot of people are just dumb a******s, so I hope luck is on your side and none of y'all run into one of them and marry them

ghosting

7mo

loving ourselves and others

idk I definitely be seeing a lot of stuff that tests my faith in humanity but I feel like if you are in the mindset of "a lot of people are just dumb a******s" u already lost... I feel u tho

hybrid supreme

7mo

no offense taken! i appreciate your conversation and perspective.

I think a lot of people in society are lacking in community these days. The only 3 things keeping things together these days are athletics, religion, and drinking and a lot of people don't like to do any of those

hybrid supreme

7mo

it's true though. I mean... I don't think people are beyond saving, but it's not gonna be me spending/wasting my time doing it, you dig?

Like I can acknowledge that someone is a dumb a****** while also thinking they can change their ways.

I just got my own journey going on so I can't try and change/save every a****** I meet is what I mean

ghosting

7mo

see thats why I suggested exercise and church

drinking can definitely promote socializing as long as u aren't going overboard too, seems like you got some great stuff going for u that op could benefit from as well

ghosting

7mo

ya I feel u, its definitely important to take care of yourself first

your not gonna be an effective pillar for other people anyway if you urself are crumbling

hybrid supreme

7mo

I appreciate that but nah

I'm good at socializing and I'm not completely a scrooge yet but I'm still kind of a degenerate trying to shed his skin, and im struggling to find an actual high paying job

We'll all get there someday

ghosting

7mo

im kinda in the same spot rn lowkey

we'll make it for sure, just cant give up 🤝

ice cold

7mo

i had this dream where some ghosts showed me my past present and future. my future was scary asf so i woke up as a new man who is kind and donates to charity and s***

slime wrld

7mo

By not attaching yourself to anything material , you do still gotta find people who resonate w you which being in your 20s isn’t too hard imo

what keeps me optimistic is the fact ik i’m gonna be good cause my mind is already adapted to the way the future looks. It’s these people who don’t know how to let go of past structure and traditions who will be deteriorating mentally

nicobarret

7mo

I literally hate humans now lol. I remember I was young, optimistic, looked forward to finding a friend group in a new city now I don’t even want to get close to niggas like i’m the opposite of what I used to be. How do you all still like s*** after being exposed to human nature? Hate the way these stuck up corporate huwite ppl look down on me on the street I might ask 10 of them just for directions and they all think I’m not even worthy of their breath. Hate the way everyone is so enamored by corporations and celebrities but ignore people around them that could need the same support. Hate politics turning everything to factions. Hate how people walk past a dying homeless man on the street but would literally go out their way to help a dog. Everyone is fake. Everyone selfish. Hate the virtue signaling like theyre good people. And I know how it’ll go when I’m up and they’ll all switch up same story everytime but now at my lowest as a loving person only to get s***ted on left and right. Maybe you guys haven’t been s***ted on as much but damn I miss the old me.

ghosting

7mo

op doesnt mention money in his post anywhere either...

like op's post scrooge held a deep disdain and indifference towards people in general at the beginning of his story

however, the end of the story showed that his previous disdain for humanity was not an inherent trait but rather a result of his life choices and attitudes, which he ultimately changed for the better....

but ya im thick headed 😋

ghosting

7mo

bro the moral of a chrismas carol can be applicable to anyones life

idk if u a comic book movie fan but the fact that u used "origin story" makes me nervous for the impact these types of movies are having 😭

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7mo

another Drake stan that lacks media literacy