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  • Sep 4, 2021

    Issa journey bro. Prepare yourself, but enjoy and don't give up when you know you have the potential to be something great.

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    KingGhidorah

    and this is why you get no b****es.

    i was trying to be friendly!

  • Sep 4, 2021
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    First of all: why do you wanna be liked by everyone?

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    thank you

  • Sep 4, 2021
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    Don’t.

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    stein

    First of all: why do you wanna be liked by everyone?

    never said everyone. just actual people who care about me. i don't care if it's 5 people and everyone else despises me, or even less than that, i just kinda need friends and people who care about me in life.

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    Deelights_

    Don’t.

    good advice

  • Sep 4, 2021
    blondedhatesyou

    good advice

    Just be you, respectful and try to do what’s right

  • blondedhatesyou

    i always been sorta an unpopular guy. if i think bout it. never had many friends and im kinda just not good with girls, or boys, or anyone.. and im tired of this s*** so how i get people to like me (particularly girls) cuz im tired of dis and im givin up almost so please help. much love and thanks.

    Grow a goatee like Batmanuel

  • Sep 4, 2021

    Can’t imagine why people don’t like OP

  • would help if we knew why they dont like you

  • Sep 4, 2021
    16g

    cant talk to buddy like that, it get bloody like that

    im dying

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    blondedhatesyou

    never said everyone. just actual people who care about me. i don't care if it's 5 people and everyone else despises me, or even less than that, i just kinda need friends and people who care about me in life.

    You got any underlying mental health issues? What happened to your last friend? Do you currently have someone youd call a friend?

  • Sep 4, 2021

    u gotta be positive and funny my guy

  • Sep 4, 2021

    this might get op banned off rip

  • Sep 4, 2021

    1) Why do you want people to like you in the first place? You need to answer this question. I can understand wanting friends and relationships that's normal and part of the human experience but wanting to people to like you just for the sake of liking you is different and might signal there are underlying issues here (insecurity/low self-esteem, etc.)

    2) Find out who you are on this earth; your identity; your reasons on this earth (look within) so you can BE YOURSELF. This is key. You have to be yourself all the time as this is where confidence comes from but in order to reach there you gotta know who you are first.

    3) Start loving yourself; do positive affirmations; work on your inner thought life. Meditate. Start exercising, eating healthy and going to the gym. Read more. Stop watching p***. If you don't have a job, look for one. Create a list of your goals and aspirations. Start off with one thing at a time. Ultimately you want to get to a point where you have a clear vision of your purpose on this earth and what you want out of life. This will give you something to look forward to and strive towards every day.

    4) Start interacting with people. Force yourself to be more social and going out your way to meet new people, if you have a job, get to know your co-workers, re-connect with old friends, etc.

    Imo once you start loving yourself, find your purpose and gain self-confidence, people will gravitate towards you as I believe the inner and outer worlds are just reflections of each other. Also once you have a purpose, are naturally confident, you will not have to fight desperately for female attention, you will be a man of value and women will be naturally attracted or be more open to you. The best way to interact with women is to not overthink s***, be masculine and just be yourself, this is all confidence is: being yourself. Once you reach this level everything just comes out natural. You don't have to try.

    This life is a long journey, you have to work on yourself and your life ultimately it's hard but it's worth it. It takes a long time to overcome years of insecurity / low confidence, etc. but its all worth it in the end.

    I wish you the best of luck. If you need any help let me know. I'm not perfect and I have a lot to improve on but I love the journey.

  • Sep 4, 2021
    blondedhatesyou

    i always been sorta an unpopular guy. if i think bout it. never had many friends and im kinda just not good with girls, or boys, or anyone.. and im tired of this s*** so how i get people to like me (particularly girls) cuz im tired of dis and im givin up almost so please help. much love and thanks.

    Be the fullest version of yourself and people will gravitate towards it

  • Sep 4, 2021

    The same way moths are attracted to light people are attracted to life

  • Sep 4, 2021

    Love yourself

    Self acceptance >>>

  • Sep 4, 2021
    papawheely

    I think when someone asks this question, usually it’s not their personality, but their habits. Like are you going out a lot? Putting yourself in social situations? Or is it a routine of ktt2 and isolation?

    Taking a break from your routine can be the first step to beneficial changes. Even if it’s just small, incremental deviations from the norm.

    Great advice for anyone struggling like OP is