I’m bougie
You coulda ended it right there.
So 120k is only not good because you’re a b****.
You gotta preface these general statements yall be making with qualifiers.
Arguably money make it harder to find someone. Cuz your standards go way up too and you gon be paranoid af hoping the woman you get isn’t with you for your money.
the cope is unreal
U gotta just let @AlfredoMobsta get his s*** off and ignore him, dude regularly floods RA sxn with red pill drivel.
You can tell bro has a horrific relation with the female relatives of his family thats for sure #PU #GetSomeTherapyNigga
If I see most guys out at a lounge with a baddie flexing bottle service I don't automatically assume he's hitting that, not at all lol. I'm just imagining a broke PMF bumping into the girl by the bathroom, get her number and meet up with her afterwards for chinese takeout after that sucker pays for the $10k tab. Am I coping? Would most women rather f*** akademiks than a peer who's handsome, funny and athletic?
You need help
I'm deep in the outer boroughs and pay 2,6k for a 1br that's just big enoguh to stretch and pace around in. That's modest living. Balling at my age is having a house, a car, vacation money, etc. at the very least.
NYC is scamming the s*** out of you niggas
Ppl still think it’s the 80s and you need to live in a huge city to thrive
Niggas brainwashed
Money is a misnomer.
No one actually cares about the money.
They care about what it took for you to get it.
Might suggest something incredible about your character.
And in a society that worships materialism, the man with money is a God.
While you not wrong conceptually
You’d be hard pressed to find people who share this sentiment in your day to day business
Money absolutely adds to the PSL scale it’s like the first thing women innately think of and what they desire most is security, the trope of a Prince Charming ass man to sweep them off their feet are just fairy tales man, looks could only take you so far, money will always reign supreme
NYC is scamming the s*** out of you niggas
Ppl still think it’s the 80s and you need to live in a huge city to thrive
Niggas brainwashed
Yeah if he moves to the suburbs he can for sure get himself a car and a house
Maybe somewhere with a nice downtown too
While you not wrong conceptually
You’d be hard pressed to find people who share this sentiment in your day to day business
nobody gonna respect you if you don’t have any money, that’s just a fact. find me anyone who is highly respected grown adult and has to be covered every time we go out lmao. That nigga is a bum!!!! Money gains respect, your character reveals you ultimately but that money take you far
I can only speak to my experience as I begin the final year of my 20s but I have never had trouble dating when I was making $40k a year. But I was never stingy. I paid for dates, money was never something to be discussed or debated and I like nice things and nice experiences. I also lived at home with my parents and didn’t have rent to pay. Now I also didn’t go for certain women either so maybe that’s another thing.
I can only speak to my experience as I begin the final year of my 20s but I have never had trouble dating when I was making $40k a year. But I was never stingy. I paid for dates, money was never something to be discussed or debated and I like nice things and nice experiences. I also lived at home with my parents and didn’t have rent to pay. Now I also didn’t go for certain women either so maybe that’s another thing.
Lot of men be superficial asf so they go towards superficial women so they can turn around and say women are superficial, funny how that logic works?
nobody gonna respect you if you don’t have any money, that’s just a fact. find me anyone who is highly respected grown adult and has to be covered every time we go out lmao. That nigga is a bum!!!! Money gains respect, your character reveals you ultimately but that money take you far
Monks are well respected while generally poor.
One day you’ll grow out this mindset and realize what is truly valuable is the things you cant pay for or dont earn via money lil bro.
Some straight men gotta admit they themselves are the bad b****es that they talk about bagging so much.
Some straight men gotta admit they themselves are the bad b****es that they talk about bagging so much.
i feel this
Monks are well respected while generally poor.
One day you’ll grow out this mindset and realize what is truly valuable is the things you cant pay for or dont earn via money lil bro.
don’t nobody give a f*** about them monks leading niggas straight into self destruction for a feeling of fake peace within themselves. money runs this world and without it you just another bum on the street, that’s facts. no money? can’t pay rent. no money? Can’t eat. No money? Can’t even get a $10 planet fitness membership to get a free shower. you can be holier than thou about it, but it’s a fact when niggas need something and it’s them against the world, they gone need some money to at least give them a peace of mind about living. we can go to the poorest places on this world and I bet you them women is thinking about how they can get some money not how they can get d*** or be at peace poor…and I bet them homeless niggas you walk past every day don’t feel respected like them monks
be serious lmfao
don’t nobody give a f*** about them monks leading niggas straight into self destruction for a feeling of fake peace within themselves. money runs this world and without it you just another bum on the street, that’s facts. no money? can’t pay rent. no money? Can’t eat. No money? Can’t even get a $10 planet fitness membership to get a free shower. you can be holier than thou about it, but it’s a fact when niggas need something and it’s them against the world, they gone need some money to at least give them a peace of mind about living. we can go to the poorest places on this world and I bet you them women is thinking about how they can get some money not how they can get d*** or be at peace poor…and I bet them homeless niggas you walk past every day don’t feel respected like them monks
be serious lmfao
Yeah because no rich celebrities have ever killed themselves ever.
Everything you saying says more about how f***ed up the world/this country is as impoverished populations in some other countries recieve minimum benefits (e.g. ubi, universal healthcare, etc.)
And hell in nyc, there are free truck services that give homeless ppl showers and haircuts
Lot of men be superficial asf so they go towards superficial women so they can turn around and say women are superficial, funny how that logic works?
Yea it don’t work. I don’t go for women I feel aren’t compatible with the lifestyle I want for myself. If you put at nice restaurants 3-4 times a week, that ain’t me!! We ain’t gon work and I’m not gon try to make it work.
Yeah because no rich celebrities have ever killed themselves ever.
Everything you saying says more about how f***ed up the world/this country is as impoverished populations in some other countries recieve minimum benefits (e.g. ubi, universal healthcare, etc.)
And hell in nyc, there are free truck services that give homeless ppl showers and haircuts
let me ask you who the world is respecting more
the man living alone paying rent or owning his property with his own vehicle and weekly/bi-weekly income
the man still cutting grass at his childhood home with no job
and be forreal. money brings you respect, your character keeps it otherwise you just a freeloader or an unlucky human watching hundreds of cars drive by you without acknowledging your existence tryna just get a dollar
if you get with a chick who is attracted to you because of money guess what happens when that money runs dry, or she meets a dude with more money?
But what if the chick who don’t like you for money going too in this hypothetical scenario lmao
While you not wrong conceptually
You’d be hard pressed to find people who share this sentiment in your day to day business
People use money as an cheap heuristic to quickly assess character.
I think everyone does this. All the time.
For example, people may assume that rich people are 'smart'.
It's like the dinner with Jay Z scenario. The scenario intrinsically assumes that he'd have some novel knowledge to bestow if you took the meeting instead of the money.
I’m bougie
You coulda ended it right there.
So 120k is only not good because you’re a b****.
You gotta preface these general statements yall be making with qualifiers.
He struck a nerve
People use money as an cheap heuristic to quickly assess character.
I think everyone does this. All the time.
For example, people may assume that rich people are 'smart'.
It's like the dinner with Jay Z scenario. The scenario intrinsically assumes that he'd have some novel knowledge to bestow if you took the meeting instead of the money.
tbf with jay z he would have novel knowledge about the artistic process and creating music. and developing a brand and things like that.
hes not like a this guy is rich he must be smart, hes like oh this is one of the most talented living people who also made money, he must be knowledgeable about his talent
people overstate the importance of their own intelligence to their situations though. when so much of life is luck. you need the intelligence to capitalize on the luck if it strikes you though.
this goes the other way too, a lot of people are self loathing that theyre responsible for bad situations in their life related to their financial, job etc. and its the same thing. its probably mostly bad luck and circumstance.