And also, do you find it rude or insulting if someone takes a long time to respond to you?
it rly just depends bro
depends on who it is and how urgent
if it’s about making plans I’ll respond within an hour
if it’s just casual conversation I might not at all
I tend to take generally the same time to respond as the other party does unless I’m actually busy then it’s whenever i can
Mostly as soon as I see it, if it’s more important I take the time to chef up a good reply, but I don’t like not responding for no reason or playing games about it
i either don’t respond or respond instantly
so it’s fine if my friends do it back
I'm not 18 I just respond when I feel like it and if people have a problem with it they can go talk to someone else
I hate the game where you have to wait to respond to a text the second you see/receive it from a girl you’re interested in or it’ll look ‘desperate’ or ‘thirsty’
I aint gon lie for a long time I used to be that nigga pressed over long response times
One busy/the busiest summer of my life later, I get it now.
I’m definitely still fast with it especially when its family and friends but I instinctively do have DND disturb on for hours some days now
idrc if someone takes long to respond cuz ik theyre going to hell for leaving me on delivered for more than 20 minutes
My favorite girl that I’m talking to at a particular moment: within 20 minutes to a few hours
Everyone else: 1-2 days if at all, I ain’t got s*** to talk about over text. Just invite me to some s***