Hello all.
I'll try to keep it short but me and my husband have been married for a few years and had our son during our marriage. I love my husband. He is my world and believed in me when no one else has and gives me the drive to continue and better myself. Our son is 7 years old...and too be honest...he isn't the most appealing to look at. When he was a baby, he looked interesting as well but kinda in a cute-ugly way that some babies are. I thought to myself that this will change over the years. He'll grow into what he needs to. Few years later and he is still...interesting to look at. He doesn't have any deformities or abnormalities but his features aren't what I would personally put together. I still love my son because he is mine and I helped to bring him into this world.
He deals with kids and sometimes other parents at his school commenting on his looks. He's been hearing this for years and I think he's internalized it. He doesn't like to look in the mirror, he doesn't look at people when they're talking to him, and constantly cries about what other people say at school. I try to comfort him about it and tell him that they're mean, jealous, and evil people. I've been to the school twice about the incidents and bullying. But deep down, I can't help but see what some of those people see. My son is not appealing to look at. I've even had family members on my side comment on it when he was first born.
Though I love my husband, I in some ways resent him for pushing to have a baby. I wanted to wait but he convinced me. If we hadn't had a baby at all or even just waited, the life of my child wouldn't be like this. My husband does his best to support our child and I will admit he does much more than me which is why I still love him so much. I just wish things were different.
My son is going to continue to grow up and I don't see his looks substantially changing.He's already internalized that he's far from conventionally attractive and will likely continue to as people comment on his looks and I don't know what to do
hit the gym, invest in cryto. Learn stocks. Obtain some sort of passive income. He’ll be fine
@Puma your momma wild for airing out your business like that.
@Puma your momma wild for airing out your business like that.
s*** your mother airing me out
you are a terrible mother and I feel bad for your kid.
I feel bad for him too. What do you suggest I do?
I feel bad for him too. What do you suggest I do?
you are actually trolling tho
I feel bad for him too. What do you suggest I do?
lie to him
crine