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  • Jun 6, 2024

    i've deleted the apps (YouTube, IG, etc.) off my phone. Yet, I'm still super addicted to randomly searching ideas up and going on a reddit rabbithole.

    i want to replace it with figuring out my career and reading, but it's still mad difficult. any suggestions on how to truly stop it?

  • Jun 6, 2024

    discipline

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    can you even list the steps you are taking to achieve the career and reading goals

  • Jun 6, 2024

    Turn off your computer

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    Read more. and dont read mindless s***, read classics, read something that you can actually engage with. reading things that require concerted effort and time will fix your attention span

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    Request a perma here

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    Wonyoungism

    can you even list the steps you are taking to achieve the career and reading goals

    i try to read a little at night. like 5 - 15 minutes.
    career goals are at standstill cause i don't know where i want my career to go tbh

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    ribbed

    Read more. and dont read mindless s***, read classics, read something that you can actually engage with. reading things that require concerted effort and time will fix your attention span

    any recs? i was thinking of reading the Power of Now (not a classic, but heard it's good), but i'm down for anything

  • Jun 6, 2024
    WFH

    Request a perma here

    it might give me Peace and Growth

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    ASMR helps for me. Liquid s*** and tapping and scratching. Helps with focus.

    Any chance u have ADHD?

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    training

    any recs? i was thinking of reading the Power of Now (not a classic, but heard it's good), but i'm down for anything

    reading dostoevsky might be good for you; his novels are very readable and offer a good perspective on religion/spirituality and the importance of connections to others. i would advise reading something like that over eckhart tolle

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    What is doomscrolling to you? Because it’s not thinking of questions and then googling them

  • Jun 6, 2024

    There’s so much cool stuff in the phone

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    training

    i try to read a little at night. like 5 - 15 minutes.
    career goals are at standstill cause i don't know where i want my career to go tbh

    there’s nothing more educational and valuable than reading ktt, ig, twitters posts

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    ribbed

    reading dostoevsky might be good for you; his novels are very readable and offer a good perspective on religion/spirituality and the importance of connections to others. i would advise reading something like that over eckhart tolle

    which dostoevsky novel should i start with?

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    babylon sherm

    What is doomscrolling to you? Because it’s not thinking of questions and then googling them

    well, i search up an idea or question i have, find a reddit thread, explore that subreddit, and then get deeper into what's going on with the topic at hand.

    example:
    1. search up replacing pedals on a bike
    2. find subreddit about it
    3. see recs on good pedals
    4. search up the pedals
    5. go back to the thread for more ideas + other things about bikes
    6. ~30 min to an hour is lost on random bike improvements

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    training

    well, i search up an idea or question i have, find a reddit thread, explore that subreddit, and then get deeper into what's going on with the topic at hand.

    example:
    1. search up replacing pedals on a bike
    2. find subreddit about it
    3. see recs on good pedals
    4. search up the pedals
    5. go back to the thread for more ideas + other things about bikes
    6. ~30 min to an hour is lost on random bike improvements

    Are you planning on replacing the pedals on your bike? This sounds far more productive than replacing it with 30 mins to an hour of reading Ekhart Tolle

  • eclass ⛓️
    Jun 6, 2024
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    just go outside

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    babylon sherm

    Are you planning on replacing the pedals on your bike? This sounds far more productive than replacing it with 30 mins to an hour of reading Ekhart Tolle

    in the future, but not now.

    is Eckhart Tolle that bad?

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    eclass

    just go outside

    i got out for a run/walk/gym almost everyday

  • Jun 6, 2024
    training

    in the future, but not now.

    is Eckhart Tolle that bad?

    Not any worse than most notable self help people. I don’t think you need to feel super guilty about looking up semi-helpful s***

    Anyway doomscrolling is when you obsess over looking up news/posts that make you feel bad. Like if you were spending every night following a bot that tweeted out details of random school shootings, thats doomscrolling

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    training

    which dostoevsky novel should i start with?

    crime and punishment is what i started with, as it gives a good overview of his personal philosophy while also delivering an engaging story

  • Jun 6, 2024

    Just stop lol

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    training

    well, i search up an idea or question i have, find a reddit thread, explore that subreddit, and then get deeper into what's going on with the topic at hand.

    example:
    1. search up replacing pedals on a bike
    2. find subreddit about it
    3. see recs on good pedals
    4. search up the pedals
    5. go back to the thread for more ideas + other things about bikes
    6. ~30 min to an hour is lost on random bike improvements

    that's not what doomscrolling is though

  • Jun 6, 2024

    Literally just leave your phone somewhere thats not next to you. Just the distance alone will make you second guess if you really need to look at it. It's not that hard of an addiction to kick compared to d****.