the-independent.com/news/world/americas/crime/brooklyn-deli-stabbing-twin-sisters-b2514367.html

So a few days ago, two twin sisters got stabbed by a loser ass nigga after rejecting him at a bodega. One of them died.

In lieu of this and harassment in general I ask, what is it that we as a society gotta do to get it through these young mens heads about how to handle rejection. It’s unnerving how many horror stories I gotta hear from my female friends about giving fake numbers or real numbers and blocking later just to not deal with the dangers of s nigga that aint get no home training.

RIP Samyia. It angers and saddens me dawg. 19 years old. Snuffed out by a shiesty wearing crashout for saying no. As men we gotta be better. What do we do?

It’s starts at home. Should probably throw in a section about rejection during s***ed classes as well

A normal person getting rejected isnt going to murder. That nigga was insane

Dont think it’s up to us as men that decide “what’s normal and what ain’t”

Because for girls, getting threats and yelled at after saying no it’s a regular occurrence

Something ain’t adding up.

mandatory consent classes in kindergarten or some s*** like that

Probably like 7th-8th grade. 9th at the latest. That’s when they started talking to us about stuff like d****/alcohol and safe s**

get off your soapbox and leave this to the birds and red pill podcasters

You’re asking a site full of men who aren’t parents and don’t even really care

You just wanna beat your chest about how ur “one of the good ones”

The real answer is to dismantle the patriarchy as that allows women to be viewed as property and their sexuality also as something to be controlled or taken

most men also aren’t stabbing people anways from getting rejected

I mean the answer is to teach your sons to respect women lol

individually sure

bad parents raise bad kids

tough. revolves around breaking down some societal norms such as men being very inward reflecting instead of outward. id imagine a more than 20% of guys who were to text in their group chat that they got rejected would get clowned.

What does a disabled patriarchy look like?

u ok bro?

He's one of the bad ones

mans wanted to get that off 😭😭😭

That defensiveness is literally part of the problem

Younger imo. Csuse niggas lesrn these traits early on (it gets encouraged sometimes. As a teacher it’s very apparent)

How does that play out for you? I need a play by play of what you expect to happen

? Shutting down debate is how we got here in the first place

I don’t think elementary school is the place to teach kids about dating and relationships.

Kids that age should learn the general concept of respecting others boundaries and learning to deal with not getting their way/being told no.

But that’s s*** you learn in like pre school

A dangerous mf is gonna be a dangerous mf if he gets rejected or not.

The problem is a lot of dudes are missing father figures and/or they dont see women as somebody's daughter/mother/sister etc.

decades long process, if not longer

the title is pretty disingenuous, are you guys out stabbing women you get rejected from?

Do you know people personally?

You could argue men have emotional and self-consciousness issues stemming from rejection and not “handling it” better but @op didn’t specify, he put a video of some (relative) instance of men getting rejected solely off rejection. This isn’t normal despite what Twitter says.

Violence against women is the bigger issue and more more widespread. Which this is apart of but not the sole example. Rape, sexual harassment, manipulative relationships, abuse, prostitution, erc

Raising economic standards of women and well as reevualating slot of how say marriage works in the west. You would need a return to a more communal community where raising children is socialized

No just bait posting some video of a n loser stabbing women and saying

Wow what ya gonna do

Without addressing the patriarchy (not the liberal buzzword the actual instance of a society where women are subjugated by men and deemed inferior, which every society has had since post hunter society)

Is just goofy.

Calling someone defensive or just jumping to “teach muh kids” is goofy

There's a lot that goes into this:

If you're willing to kill someone over getting rejected, suffice to say that you might have a lot more going with you than just your mistreatment of women.

But on subject of harassing women, there is a case that can be made about how we as a society need to stop conditioning young men into thinking that their value and worth is tied to their ability to attract women.

And by extension, subsequently treating women like something that needs to be conquered.

And then doing all of that in a way that doesn't remove accountability away from the types of men who would be willing to commit those types of acts in the first place.

AND THEN we can make it about how and how not to handle rejection.