Abuse victims are afraid to leave
If she was going to leave she would have done it already
Just call the cops and say he’s been assaulting her
cops don't s*** for abuse either. unless she presses charges, nothing happens
cops don't s*** for abuse either. unless she presses charges, nothing happens
It’s different since OP lives with them and is a witness
What girl says doesn’t matter as much
It’s different since OP lives with them and is a witness
What girl says doesn’t matter as much
he already called in OP and said the guy was left off with a warning
he already called in OP and said the guy was left off with a warning
I get the feeling he didn’t frame it that well and was shying away
But nah the s***ty thing is he’s saying he’s gonna live with the girl he’s been abusing violently,they gonna share a place
How do I save her man
Can't save everybody, don't even try.
cops don't s*** for abuse either. unless she presses charges, nothing happens
Victim pressing charges a tv thing, only way charges get pressed is by prosecutors choosing to do so regardless of what the victim wants
Nigga just told us right now he’s moving out end of the month lmao right after I made this thread
Manifestation works
Talk some sense to that girl.
He may move out but he'll definitely continue to abuse her regardless of the roof he's under.
There's no talking sense into her. She's gotta do that all on her own, she knows the situation is f***ed.
i live with 2 girl roommates so and there bi so you know what happens
so you be pressing your ear against the wall listening?
so you be pressing your ear against the wall listening?
no dumb ass we have a three way
no dumb ass we have a three way
Victim pressing charges a tv thing, only way charges get pressed is by prosecutors choosing to do so regardless of what the victim wants
oh really? huh I've assumed it was a general thing if the victim makes it a big deal to not charge then
"my mom is different" isn't a good take on why you shouldn't intervene when a woman is constantly getting her s*** knocked. some people weren't raised to have that self respect
I’m gonna be straight up if it’s not my family or a woman I have a relationship with, I really don’t care. It’s not my duty to be her benefactor or whatever.
Grown women can make their own decisions straight up. Like I get what you’re saying about not everybody being taught that self respect, but I don’t see why I should have to advocate for a woman who can’t decide she’s fed up with getting abused.
If she has no other options and is stuck in a s*** Domestic situation with no support or escape that’s one thing, but that isn’t always the case.
There's no talking sense into her. She's gotta do that all on her own, she knows the situation is f***ed.
This is exactly what I’m saying
I’m gonna be straight up if it’s not my family or a woman I have a relationship with, I really don’t care. It’s not my duty to be her benefactor or whatever.
Grown women can make their own decisions straight up. Like I get what you’re saying about not everybody being taught that self respect, but I don’t see why I should have to advocate for a woman who can’t decide she’s fed up with getting abused.
If she has no other options and is stuck in a s*** Domestic situation with no support or escape that’s one thing, but that isn’t always the case.
this dude knows this girl, clearly feels he should step in here. maybe you don't have to care because it's a stranger on the internet but i think helping this girl if she has no other outlets (sounds like she doesn't) is a good idea
I’m gonna be straight up if it’s not my family or a woman I have a relationship with, I really don’t care. It’s not my duty to be her benefactor or whatever.
Grown women can make their own decisions straight up. Like I get what you’re saying about not everybody being taught that self respect, but I don’t see why I should have to advocate for a woman who can’t decide she’s fed up with getting abused.
If she has no other options and is stuck in a s*** Domestic situation with no support or escape that’s one thing, but that isn’t always the case.
and no hate to you btw, the females in my family are the same way as your mom but i have friends who are girls who don't have the self respect or courage to exit similar situations and it's sad af
Honestly why I can’t do roomies. I share rent with family and I love them but they drive me nuts and that’s on the slight side of things it’s not even anything crazy. I can’t imagine people who aren’t family or not a gf driving me nuts