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U gotta bop to the top

I've got a question, and I don't mean to offend. Did you grow up kind of rough?

grass is always greener bro

dong forget to appreciate what you already have, you probably spent a lot of time and effort working towards it

grass is always greener man
as someone that has acted on that feeling that youre describing il tell you its not worth destroying what youve built for a temporary high

*grass isn't greener

if what you said was your sentiment

This nigga wanna f*** other hoes so bad lol. Trust me brah its 100% not worth it. Stick with ya girl.you can do dope s*** with her, go travel take a trip

nah he used it correctly

what's being said with that idiom is that the grass always appears to be greener when in fact it is not

Sounds like you need a change of scenery

Move to a new place even if its the same city - if you can afford it and it wont f*** nothing up

Also a vacation could be dope

Most of the stuff yoy mentioned you can still do while in a relationship

he did tho

the saying is "the grass is always greener on the other side"

people always perceive their life as worse than a hypothetical alternative

in reality everything has pros and cons

but the Reality of your situation is always gonna pale in comparison to the Fantasy of what you think is out there

there's a million people who wanna be famous entertainers

and yet, some of the people who end up in that prestigious, desired position end up in despair & some even kill themselves

you don't know what you want til you have it

It is correct

The statement itself is sarcasm as in no it isnt but you might think it is just because its different.

And a saying of saying there is nothing truly better it all has its own issues

While having omagery of you looking over to you neighbors fence thinking its something radically different and special from you

have you told anyone in your life about what you're facing rn?

do you think you'd be happier single?

or maybe its an issue w/ your current partner specifically?

try not to compare your situation to others, but focus intently on what You want for your future self devoid of the input or experiences of other people

We doing a***ogy breakdowns itt

Because what you described sounds similar to how I felt in my late teens and early 20s anytime I had stability. I grew up always having to figure things out or survive through tough situations. I realized that I wasn't actually that stressed. It just felt like it had been too long since I had to fight or struggle. I was waiting for something, and part of me was self-sabotaging in a lot of areas in my life to create tension or opportunity for me to feel, I guess I would call it triumph because I was so used to it. It was wild coming to the realization that it's okay for things to be relaxed. I still sometimes have to keep myself from making rash decisions chasing excitement at 30.

I don't know if your situation is at all similar to mine, but it just felt familiar as I was reading it.

Either way, I personally do a 30 minute brain dump everyday. I just write everything in my head down. When I read it back, I can piece together why I'm feeling the way that I'm feeling and understand if it's trauma-based. I've pinpointed a lot of things that I need to work through this way.

Also the full line is "grass is always seems greener on the otherside"

Which means if youre not happy and content with yourself & your life, then you will always think others have something you dont that makes their life seem happier. When really everyone has issues & nothing is truly better nor perfect overall.

Be content with yourself or else you will always look over the fence without getting the full story.

Yeah but the shorthand version is always used in and assumes a sarcastic way so that user is still right and the shorthand version is legit and common as well

I'd change jobs/positions then. Lessen the grind/stress.

Good problems

This is exactly how I felt and still feel even though I’m over 30.

After struggling nearly all my life I’ve changed it completely the last 8 years except the city I’m living in.

Now i got day where it feels like I got everything I need and then some days I feel like I could again change everything and leave my current life behind.

Life is strange. We got problems that others which they would have…

Try to go deeper than what you’ve described.

Of course, maybe you want to travel and see the world. Maybe you want to date other girls. But if you don’t want to lose what you’ve got either, then there could be problems inside you.

Home Office, working out, listening/reading books and seeing new friends/ leaving old friends behind, helped me.

It also helped me to talk about nearly everything with my girlfriend.

You don't know how blessed you are man

And if you were doing the opposite of all that, you'd actually be wasting your time.

I forgot to mention that my two cats and learning how to produce music changed my life too.