it happens with new girls i meet, new friends i meet and I aint gaining s*** from it. Idk how to fix it smh

Ok nosimpinniggaman

by making threads like this! it means ur aware

i lowkey think i got problems mentally

don’t worry bro, your new girl probably getting her p**** pounded by another nigga and most of your friends are gonna leave you in 5 to 10 years

U always going thru it

I know how that is. I’ve struggled with it as well, what helped me was understanding the difference between a fixed mindset & growth mindset. Blessings king

remember it's overall a really good trait

you have to work on balancing it for sure though

once I started noticing that people weren't keeping the same energy towards me, I learnt to not get attached easily anymore

it aint even about women. I end up not caring about them in the end eitherway it’s mostly friends

You never been hurt before

Same, idk why i care so much

you do

NOsimpingniggamayn

Op trolling on cripmas eve

Same

Just gotta spend more time on your dolo for that feeling to fade

I watched interstellar the other day, and when they were on the planet and time was moving quick, and his family grew old I got sad. It reminded me that time is going fast and the people im cool with now I will probably have no relationship with in 10 years. (aside from my cousins)

Why is it a good trait tho

I used to be anti social like a motherfucker 2-3 years ago, but now i turned social as f*** and wanna hang with my friends all the time. Like if i just sit in my room for a whole day and do nothing i get depressed and uncontrollable. Its crazy how much i changed in 2 years

it's a very trusting and loving trait. you want to be attached to the right people

it can get bad if you're attaching yourself to the wrong people

but their are a lot of ppl who lose that feeling after being hurt a couple of times and have this 'coldness' about them which definitely protects them from future hurt but is also unhealthy

But if u dont find the right people u just end uo getting hurt over and over again

yeah but hopefully you live and learn and don't lose that trait

you don't want to turn bitter and cold and being 'unattached' to everyone is one of the steps to get there

This right here Op

thats lowkey where im at im really cool with these people but knowing it will eventually end got me sad