i dont go to bars but doing those other things by yourself is actually pretty fun. i encourage my bf to take himself out on dates all the time since i already do.
this section is so terrible for actual discussion lol
niggas always looking to dunk on someone for likes
It's no different anywhere else
Also everything you listed can be done alone. What are you complaining about?
OP actually is just crying out for good relationships
I diagnose u with antisocial disorder. Maybe also autism spectrum given usage of the word NPC
that isn't what aspd is
it should be that way. being alone shouldnt be normalized its not healthy idc what anyone says
that isn't what aspd is
Calling everyone an NPC ironically falls a lot more under aspd lol
As far as the movie thing goes that prolly means you don't really enjoy movies if you can't go alone
What types of bars do yall be going to lol
Whenever I move to a new neighborhood, I make it a point to go to the nearest dive bar once or twice a week have a couple beers, and just read
You don’t even need to be outgoing and trying to talk to people. Just need to start being perceived as a regular. Before you know it, it becomes easy to chime in on conversations with other regulars or the bartender. Within a month or two you know new people by name and are building friendships with the people you vibe with. Get in on a shot with someone. Let them ask you about the book you’re reading or whatever.
This doesn’t even just have to be with bars but those are the most conducive for this. Finding new people is all about exposure and just demonstrating your a well adjusted, familiar face.
and once you’re a regular somewhere, if you don’t show up for a couple weeks, there’s bound to be someone that says “haven’t seen you in a while” when you go in next. That’s another opportunity for conversation and getting to know people. It’s really not difficult
What city you in and what bar
Going to the movies alone>>>>>>
Honestly i prefer seeing movies alone cause people talk too f***ing much during movies plus I like to spread out
Travelling alone to a new city and getting s*** shaking like Clint Eastwood in Fistful of Dollars
This is hilarious to me
just go to a good dj set, walk your city , run alone
dance
I think when people see someone doing something alone and passionate about it they know they arent just there to be seen or for photos but to be present
I wouldn't go to a social place without a social intention. what do I need to go to a bar for if im alone, getting wasted is times cheaper at home if I dont have to entertain anyone else
The drinking I can understand but the movies is for entertainment and u can go dolo and eating is really not necessary to do with someone else. U can take your time write read, be on your phone.
Idk it kinda feels like u don't know how to enjoy your own company. I have done all those things alone and enjoy myself maybe not the bar( but that's cause I don't even drink lol). But I gone to parties and functions alone and had more fun by myself than with others. Vice versa, it depends.
I would advise you go in these things with an open mind
i dont go to bars but doing those other things by yourself is actually pretty fun. i encourage my bf to take himself out on dates all the time since i already do.
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