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  • Sep 22, 2021
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    Mesaih

    I've talked s*** about god for 7 years and I'm still alive so idk what that means

    When you were taking a test and your stomach grumbled? That was God embarrassing you for your BLASPHEMY sir better how you speak to the big guy, buddy!

  • supercute

    Idk if I need friends but I hate when people bail on me I thought we’re closer

    we are all friends here. Just don't troll us with topics like this and we are cool. I have a hard time trusting anime avi's. But then, I imagine people talking to avi with a cosplay Lucifer cat is difficult being serious with as well.

  • The pandemic exposed how many people I used to go do things with don’t really give af about me and I don’t give af about them either.

    In the past I called them friends cause we would go eat or to bars together on weekends. Yeah it was a fun time but after everything got shut down we had nothing to do and no reason to contact each other or hang out. After months past I realize that I don’t care about those people. They were my acquaintances not my friends.

    Now heading out of the pandemic with things opening back up, yeah I basically have no friends. I don’t even care to reach out to those people again and they aren’t reaching out to me.

    I will be way more selective about who I call a friend now. To me, a friend is someone you can just talk to in a empty room for hours, doing nothing but having a conversation. Think about how many people in your life you are comfortable doing that with. Those are your friends. Everyone else is an acquaintance.

  • Mesaih

    I've talked s*** about god for 7 years and I'm still alive so idk what that means

    You connect in with a bigger plan somehow (God can still work through you) but are otherwise a background character

  • Sep 22, 2021
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    Kako

    work on yourself become a good person and better yourself and be of value so when you meet someone you have a lot to contribute. in terms of looks, it's not hard to improve, go to the gym, dress better, buy cologne, work on hygiene, get haircuts regularly, etc. but it's hard to do all these things if you don't love yourself first.. because people with low self-esteem and lack of self love will not make that effort.

    i know i used to be shy and anxious too, all my life actually, until i started working on myself and learning to accept myself and my flaws and just being myself.. now i'm just naturally confident. we can all change. people who know me from high school cannot recognize me now.

    i'd like to add you don't really need be in a relationship to be happy. most people i know in relationships are not happy it kind of gets stale and they're just there because they want to avoid being lonely but obviously that's hard because we all human. but i know if i'm gonna be meet someone i really want to avoid that and really find someone i like and not just get into it because i'm lonely.

    It's hard definitely, you kind of want to meet someone but you can't force it. there's someone for everyone trust me. the better you become the better you attract.

    I wish you the best tho my bro.

    Thanks fam. I will keep working on me. Rn I’m trying to get over being dumped like a month ago.

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