cut em niggas off.

Having no friends is goated tbh

Make new friends/cut them off

Honestly yeah if motherfuckers want to be disrespectful throw that s*** our there and let them know you don't play that s*** at worst you'll get beat up but make sure to land a couple clean shots on the f***er so he remembers that s***.. sometimes you win a fight but you'll never want to fight that guy again because the effort you're going to have to put in to beat him is just too much.

Going places you want whenever you want with no need to appease anybody else's yup that s***s awesome. You gotta do s*** by yourself every here and there

real s*** OP i feel u its the same s*** over here. spending this time during the pandemic recouperating and finding motivation to stay driven, however the world is slowly clearing up and im wondering how to go about the world opening up (events, clubs etc.) and who to go with now. its like everything is pointing back to re linking with the clique and going out but they are like clout leeches. its actually sad when you evaluate what your "friends" are doing for you, its some competitive alpha weird s*** that i just dont get.

Change your number and delete socials, it'll be as if they don't exist

then they are not your friends op

I distanced myself from a good chunk of my friends over the past few years, nothing wrong with wanting the best for yourself and severing negative ties. Don’t mean y’all can’t be cool but you’re growing up

Join clubs and associations. Go to your uni gym and play some pick up basketball, soccer or whatever sport you interested in. Lift and get to know some of the gym regulars. Take some fun elective classes that require people to be social ex: a language class, art, phys ed, etc.

Yes that’s toxic man you need to split ASAP. Different situation, but I split from my friends in high school who would just sit around and do d**** and sit around and haven’t turned back since. To this day they’re still doing the same s*** they were doing in HS

splitting with a toxic friend group helps you grow as a person. Prioritize yourself first. Forget their feelings. If you don’t want to cut them off 100% cold turkey then slowly cut contact with them. Surround yourself with people that are either where you want to be, or where you’d like to go.

I don’t know what your moral convictions are, but you could either be fake (like them) and use them for what they offer you, or you could stay true, cut your losses and start fresh socially

how did u end up in this circle

Lowkey the best move

Drop them like a bad habit and explore new friend groups! Go out! Talk to different kinds of people! You’ll find some new folks. It may take some time though. Just make sure to be yourself.

Used to be in a friend group like this couple years ago, sure they were edgy and funny at the same time they were kicking me down and seeming to be in "competition" in regard to whatever. Nonetheless I distanced myself from them and even ignored texts from one of them lol

Never felt better cutting off a toxic group

Go do the things you wanna do and meet people thru that

I’m in college tho, no friends in college sounds like a nightmare

Replace the word “killing” with “suppressing” and this is deep as s***

Met them my freshman year of college, wanted to be friends with them cuz they were the most POPPIN people in the tower. Ended up getting real close with them, but as I said in OP, feels like I’m in a constant d*** swinging contest, almost literally

@OP ive only read the title so im not sure as to what the particular situation is but going off the title alone i can say ive been in the same boat

I mean i like some of the dudes but they were always hanging out in this big ass group and i never felt comfortable because i disliked the majority and i feel like it was the same for them when it came to me

Just cut them off, ive been feeling lonely for a big ass time because i was depressed in the same time too, and i didn't have any real options for meeting new people but im still glad i cut them off

Theres just no point in wasting time with people that dont care about you and you don't care about either. I'm lucky that i have been with this girl for years so it made lack of social contact less hard to notice

I still have friends that i see but its not the same when you don't have a group of mutual friends to do stuff with, but it's worth it. Focus on doing things you enjoy, even if it's by yourself

Wish I had a girl, would make this a whole lot easier. Iowkey feel like if I cut these niggas off, then I will have nobody :(

i say manuever through your group. find people through parties and s*** that yall all go out together in and start trying to formulate genuine friendships that way.

at the end of the day your in college people are looking to make more friends not just be ride or die.

Yeah i feel you, and i ain't finna lie to you. That will happen, but the longer you keep this going the harder it will be to cut them off. And also the less time you've got to do things you actually like

Which can also mean that ultimately it will take longer for you to find friends you actually fw

Good luck either way, and if u really out here lonely af hit my pm's. Not to be cliché or anything but i'm here if you just wanna talk your s*** or w/e you got this bro