My father was a complicated man, and we had an argument about our family a couple years ago. My mother's side of the family hated him, they got a divorce. I was the middleman to their anger. I couldn't handle it anymore, I stopped talking to him. I got a phone call yesterday afternoon while I was getting lunch with my friend and an investigator was on the line telling me my father passed away in his sleep, and asked me what we should do with him. He had my phone number down in his room, nobody else's. I had to tell my grandma her son passed away. If you have problems with anyone in your life that you love, fix that s*** right away. You don't have time.
S***s so sad man I can relate my dads being going through rehab and I miss him I'm just glad he's still here yknow not sure how i would feel if he passed
What if you can’t fix the problems bc your dads an alcoholic
RIP ops dad
We will keep you and your father in our thoughts 🖤
Keeping you in my thoughts 🙏 @op
Had a real great talk with my dad yesterday. We haven’t been as close the last few years but we finally started getting that bond again. Glad I started putting in effort again. My condolences to you OP
My father was a complicated man, and we had an argument about our family a couple years ago. My mother's side of the family hated him, they got a divorce. I was the middleman to their anger. I couldn't handle it anymore, I stopped talking to him. I got a phone call yesterday afternoon while I was getting lunch with my friend and an investigator was on the line telling me my father passed away in his sleep, and asked me what we should do with him. He had my phone number down in his room, nobody else's. I had to tell my grandma her son passed away. If you have problems with anyone in your life that you love, fix that s*** right away. You don't have time.
I can’t say I relate because my Dad hasn’t passed. But he suffered an awful childhood that led to all kind of stress and he was diagnosed with skin cancer. They found it late. it f***ing sucks because he persevered through horrible abuse
RIP to your pops fam
RIP
hope all is good with you anyway. dont know how ill feel once my parents go, ive been very lucky in so far i havent had to deal with anything like that
but even thinking about it
him keeping only your number just goes to show how much he valued you though- above everyone else, and even after not speaking for so long
sorry for your loss fam <3
“He had my phone number down in his room, nobody else's.”
Holy f***ing s***
OP 100% right. Never let the devil win. My pop is toxic af, but I keep him in check. You got to. Never just give up on ya family members.
Nowadays it’s so popular to “cut-off” people in your family, friends, etc when they become problematic, BUT THATS WHAT FAMILY IS.
Don’t let the devil win y’all.
OP my condolences bro, just know ya pops loved you because he had your number fam. One day, y’all gon reunite and hash it up, I’m sure of this. Keep hope.
His pop only had his number bro, nobody else’s. His dad f***ing loved him.
That’s proof the devil leading families astray, on ME.
my condolences bro