this attitude is loser s***

i know

People that grew up with the same set of friends lucky.

I went to 4 different elementary schools, the last one being private then switched to public for middle in a whole other district than my other schools, then a new district for HS, then a whole other state for college, now I’m in a whole other state from college.
I’ve always had to make new friends, which is no problem but yea I know I’ll never have like a tight knit group like those people that actually grew up with their friends.

does anyone have any advice on how to keep my mind busy? so i can forget about my “old” friend? i keep thinking about her tbh. She helped/inspired me to stop smoking weed

Too attached to your friend? Sounds like you want more than friendship if it's a girl

no nigga it really aint like that. Believe me or not, you can have good relationships with the opposite s***without it being sexual. This girl helped me lay of weed, alcohol and s***. Also the thread is actually about me, i get too attached in general.

you get too attached to others because you aren't comfortable with yourself?

its not just that. In general i care too much about my friends, and it rarely goes both ways. the amount of times i have helped a friend in need, just to get f***ed over right after i can’t count on one hand.

this

I know you can but if she helped you with so much then she doesn't sound like she f'd you over in any way. What happened to her? Got a bf?

bro im not actually attracted to her like that. I know it sounds corny af but lowkey i see her like she my cousin or some s*** like that. I care about her a lot. TOO much. Even though she helped me with that s*** it was just her being a good friend. The reason i “let her go” is because i care too much. I be getting too attached to her, its like i wanna talk to her 24/7, and i dont wanna be like that. I know it sounds weird af, and its all my fault tbh.

i got issues

How old are you? I got this mentality around 18 lost it around 20. But they gotta give that energy first

22

Hmm American? If so which part

no american thank god

lowkey a flex

The one person who didn't "disown" you and cares about you but you are doing it to her yeah I don't get it. You can still talk and stuff with her. You think she will eventually hurt you? You can't control that. If you enjoy their company then just live in the moment

/thread

bruh its always me f***ing up my friendships. I end up getting hurt, and act out of order and saying some f***ed up s***. I dont wanna do that to her.

Once my friend needed money, and even though i was in a s*** load of debt i gave him the money without hesitation. When i needed a little favor from him he didn’t even help me. After that i lowkey couldn’t be a good friend anymore.

I was literally in debt and 90% of my income was going into paying the debt, and i still helped his ass.