sounds like you winning

Anecdotal generalization. Maybe you know people who are fine and dandy who f*** s***workers, I haven’t ran into those folk personally. My keywords were “(I) Never met someone...”

I just typically understand that most folk won’t pay for p**** if they can get it for free, if you gotta go out of your way and pay to play then you probably having a real hard time getting laid in the first place. I just don’t see any rational person tricking right off the bat unless they feel like they don’t have a chance in hell so they don’t even try to meet other girls n s***.

But ofc personal generalizations should always be taken lightly at best.

you sound very narrow minded in your view of people's wants. why do you think every guy wants to put up some fake courtship to have s***with women? there are plenty of dudes who could easily have s***with hot women but still drop bags on prostitutes, it's the same reasoning why dudes go to strip clubs as well, it's not like every dude in a strip club is incapable of getting p****

It just seems dumb to me, call me narrow minded but what’s the point on spending $300 or $800 on a s***worker when you can go to a bar like 14 days out the week , probably spend $300 on drinks and probably end up with a few numbers to chicks you can bang for a lot cheaper back to back?

Like I can f*** this prostitute for $300 one time or I can f*** my friends with benefits 4 times a week and maybe I spend $30 on her ass ordering some food once a week while we chill and watch movies n s***.

Like I said call me narrow minded but round up 10 guys who went to the strip club to throw money at the dancers vs 10 guys who paid for p**** and I’m willing to bet you’ll get two distinctly different demographics of people.

Ofc at the end of the day this is just me projecting with no evidence but nevertheless it is my opinion 🤷🏾‍♂️

Damn bro, well it prolly don’t mean s*** from a nigga on ktt but buying head don’t make you a bad person, you prolly just tryna fill a hole, you gotta find what’s missing out ya life and make it right

I think you underestimate just how jaded some men can be, especially when they got money to blow, but I suppose you can equate that to some form of unhappiness. I think most people would prefer your option but I also think some guys are just kind of misogynists as well.

You're right in some sense but I guess not everyone is looking for that type of connection

it didn't make me a bad person

Reminds me a of guy on ktt who f***ed a bunch of s***workers and he lost all physical intimacy for women and basically only saw them as a hole to f***. Dude couldn’t keep a gf because of it. So if you do got money to drop on em all the time it looks like it can be damaging to the male psyche. Then there’s this guy at my job who’s kinda weird and he talked about how he basically kept having s***with a bunch of prostitutes in Dubai in the Navy when he was deployed. And because s***over sees is cheaper than a f***ing hotel a lot of men in the Navy were messing with these women at least every day. I can’t help but think what that might have done to those sailors mentally. I mean dude has a wife n s*** so I guess they aigh

you ok @op?

at one point she was letting dudes smash for $400

Because s***is guaranteed, it’s transactional and simple

Dont think youre a bad person. In technical terms this is a s***addiction and can be worked through. Or in spirituality youre what they call 'lost' and need to do a 180 somehow

If you keep thinking of yourself as a bad person its only going to feed addiction more. Be inspired to be greater than you are

Bruh you just got offered some free head you really addicted to paying huh

Y’all some pussies sometimes man nothing wrong with paying a b**** for some head

crying

Makes sense. Paid s***is known to be an extremely vacuous experience, if there’s sociopaths who don’t mind paying for an experience more derelict than a one night stand then that’s their business.

It is obvious I frown upon paying for s***as you can see. For a lot of people like OP if he’s telling the truth this stuff can ruin you mentally and emotionally. Just my opinions.

I would like to add that such people may already be insecure or have a sense of self loath and paid s***can be a variable that exacerbates the issue, thus I’m not saying paid s***is the source of mental instability...ofc there are many who participate in paid s***with nothing wrong to come about it. But I’m willing to bet the common denominator of folk aren’t the type people that wake up in the morning and think life is all bright and peachy.

That’s the end of my condescending post 😑

I'd rather pay, I'm a gentleman

Stop talking to them, talk to people who actually care about you

My hiking buddy says she doesn't get the negative stigma around buying s***but this is some real s***

It's not true at all lol.. you guys are under the assumption all guys view s***as some sacred emotional act when in reality some guys just got $$$ and wanna get a nut off without working for it lol

You still paying for it

You lost me here