doot

2y

I had a girl I had a thing with briefly my senior year of college and she made it seem like she was head over heels w me, texting me constantly, hanging out, etc then randomly one day just dropped it and said she didn’t think it would work out. Stopped texting fully after one night basically. After that, for about 2 weeks, all I did was worry about what she was doing, what I did wrong, etc. Eventually I realized though that it was a great opportunity to work on myself and put myself in a better place than I was before. That exact situation made me stop worrying about what girls are gonna do, whether they text back,etc because I was truly secure with who I was and was going to do me and work on me. What’s funny is once i cut her off fully and started doing me, she hit me back up again like a month later. And I ghosted that bozo

It’s a very freeing feeling, and led me to much more opportunities w women once I was in that bag, and I bet you can do it too 👌

HaroldsChicken

2y

lol mans asked for a direct relationship after hearing she had a sugar daddy

Thizz

2y

You did do too much, but she is weird for taking money from an old dude. Next time just ghost them without being dramatic

Kingcrowded_

2y

Whenever this guy gives advice
Do the opposite

You ain’t doing enough my guy

CLB BMO

2y

This but kind of unironically

fun guy

2y

when I find myself waiting for a text back, I simply ask myself: What would Drizzy do?

Perreo

2y

Hell nah but you know if she fine and she down for something NSA then why not? You know?

My man is probably just inexperienced which i hope he's young because if he in his late 20s early 30s thinking like this he cooked and soon gonna be on some loser s***

PreciousCry

2y

I know man I did too much.

CLB BMO

2y

1-2 hours isn’t that crazy lol you only hung out once and neither of you should be invested that early plus ppl got lives

I kinda get asking what people are looking for but again it seems like it’s too soon to ask she doesn’t know you that well so I would’ve just gone with the flow and have a few more dates before asking

allmygirlsdoyoga

2y

In all seriousness though, you aren’t in the wrong at all. Unsending your messages is pretty funny tho. I would have just unfollowed or blocked.

doot

2y

I had a girl I had a thing with briefly my senior year of college and she made it seem like she was head over heels w me, texting me constantly, hanging out, etc then randomly one day just dropped it and said she didn’t think it would work out. Stopped texting fully after one night basically. After that, for about 2 weeks, all I did was worry about what she was doing, what I did wrong, etc. Eventually I realized though that it was a great opportunity to work on myself and put myself in a better place than I was before. That exact situation made me stop worrying about what girls are gonna do, whether they text back,etc because I was truly secure with who I was and was going to do me and work on me. What’s funny is once i cut her off fully and started doing me, she hit me back up again like a month later. And I ghosted that bozo

It’s a very freeing feeling, and led me to much more opportunities w women once I was in that bag, and I bet you can do it too 👌

Allen Iverson

2y

You think to yourself "why are women like they are in 2023" then you realize that there are a trillion guys like OP that they come across and take advantage of.

ragedsycokiller

2y

She for the streets if she has a sugar daddy lol. That's not a girl you pick up and save unless she's an IG model and youre in a 45% taxed income bracket

Vlonely

2y

Not necessarily, I know girls who have had guys buy them s*** for basically nothing, it doesn’t even mean she’s f***ing him or anything. Some dudes are just losers that deserve to be taken advantage of so why wouldn’t they

ragedsycokiller

2y

Idk man. You really can't start dating a girl who has a couple active sugar daddies in her inventory.

Idk any girl who has that and is ready to settle down immediately. I only know the girls who are single, having their hoe phase, and taking advantage of any guy throwing her money