The 2nd one by faaaaaaaar
There’s nothing useful about knowing where you rank in the objective scheme of things because on some level preference is subjective
If you can find out who subjectively finds you attractive, that’s waaaaay more useful than having this sort of objective ranking thing
It’s also worth mentioning that I’m certain based purely on appearance, there are far more attractive men than me so again, it’s not useful to be reminded of that constantly
Dawg for an average or below average person, you’d be dumb af to pick the first over the 2nd. The first would simply remind you that you suck whereas the 2nd would be like having the ability to predict stock market trends: you’d know exactly when to buy and when to sell and probably make a killing! How could you turn that down?
Would you take it?
Imagine you walk into the Subway and see the rank of how you rank among the other men in terms of physical attraction
The average is based on everyone else in the same space
LMFAO
Dawg for an average or below average person, you’d be dumb af to pick the first over the 2nd. The first would simply remind you that you suck whereas the 2nd would be like having the ability to predict stock market trends: you’d know exactly when to buy and when to sell and probably make a killing! How could you turn that down?
Interesting
Only the most insecure mfs in the world would do this
So it would be a convincing curse instead of power to choose?
Interesting
If that’s you in your picture you’re clearly a woman of above average attractiveness so I’m probably speaking alien to you right now. I can’t imagine you’re ever too in the dark about who may be attracted to you… that s*** probably gets thrown in your face on the daily. But that’s the whole point. People from a certain lifestyle angle don’t have to pick the first and wouldn’t appreciate the nuance behind it. You have to live under this condition of being considered an average or below average guy to truly think the way I just did. Maybe even with below average sexual/romantic success. Tbf lesbians might be clued in a little bit too.
At risk of being weird, I want to expand on something. Being aware that you’re a woman of probably at least average attractiveness, it’s clear the 2nd option would be meaningless to you compared to the first. You probably get hit on enough to where the 2nd wouldn’t necessarily change anything. But women are judged and forced to care about their physical attractiveness much more than men. So even if you were relatively attractive, the desire for validation and the need to know where you stand compared to the average woman might be more interesting or compelling of a concept than simply knowing who might be attracted to you. Two completely different perspectives.
Say you had to pick this OR
Everytime you walk into a public space you can see who finds you attractive
You have to pick one
The 2nd one is a legitimate superpower
Real s*** if you don’t think you’re the most attractive person in any room you walk in, you living life wrong
The 2nd one is a legitimate superpower
Lol literally what I said but like to an attractive guy or the average woman, it’s meaningless cause they get pursued enough to not care either way 🤷🏽♂️
Lol literally what I said but like to an attractive guy or the average woman, it’s meaningless cause they get pursued enough to not care either way 🤷🏽♂️
I'm an attractive guy but this would still be useful IMO
Like I go for 6/7/8s but knowing when a 9 fancies me would be gamechanging
And yes I know women are not numbers and attraction is inherently variable depending on who is perceiving
I already do that in my head to shut down the intrusive thoughts
what she do
Too real for this site