So basically my mom and dad have been divorced for 10+ years and I’m pretty sure he left her for some other chick, cuz he was talkin to her right after the divorce. My family we all don’t like her at all and have nothing to do with her. He dates her on and off and pays her bills and things like that, but he doesn’t have any money and has lost his car and house cuz he’s too p****whipped by this b****. Well, he’ll still come over and call my mom all the time and eat my moms food and hang out with us and it’s toxic, he like has his cake and eats it too ykwim? Well ever since i moved away i don’t pay attention to that crap so I’m outta the loop. My mom calls me today and tells me that she was strung out on meth or something and tried to kill him with a gun, she shot at him and missed. She went to jail and all, and he’s STILL messing with her. Apparently she hangs around these bad guys/drug dealers and her son would spat with my dad a lot. The son ended up getting really high and taking his family hostage before the cops killed him in a shootout. Apparently my dad is with her when she hangs around these guys and knowing my dad he’s prolly arguing with them too. My dad carries a gun too and it’s only a matter of time before something bad happens. My siblings said they’re gonna give him an ‘it’s either us or them’ type s*** cuz i don’t want these d*** dealers finding out where my mom lives and s***. My mom said to wait on that but my mom is too big of a p**** and can’t say no, she’s dragging out the inevitable. Idrc abt my dad anymore but idk what to do cuz i don’t want my family in trouble

yeah he defo needs to hear that "its us or them" s***

hope it all works out well for you fam

honestly ya whole fam should cut all contact with all of them

guns n meth aint no joke

you need therapy

Nightman with the facts, he’s gotta make a decision before it’s too late. You gotta be firm because it’s for your father’s best interests. Hope the best for you OP!

Be glad you got away from that drama