Nuja 🫶🏾Aug 9, 2021
SeanLaurentParisIt's a bullshit remark, they're just implying they're superior because in their eyes I'm weak and thus inferior.
Don’t let them get to you. A lot of people on here have that bootstrap mentality or haven’t been through real adversity to know what true mental anguish feels like. You aren’t weak or inferior
Aug 9, 2021·3 repliesYou should be unhappy your life seems pretty bad. You have to change before it’s too late
Aug 9, 2021ChangeofheartYou should be unhappy your life seems pretty bad. You have to change before it’s too late
Cmon man
Aug 9, 2021SeanLaurentParisIt's a bullshit remark, they're just implying they're superior because in their eyes I'm weak and thus inferior.
I've learnt that people never really understand what you're going through unless they've gone through it themselves. I'm sure "you sound weak" wouldn't be the first thing to say if you've gone through a similar situation to someone ranting about their pain.
Aug 9, 2021ChangeofheartYou should be unhappy your life seems pretty bad. You have to change before it’s too late
- Aug 9, 2021Changeofheart
You should be unhappy your life seems pretty bad. You have to change before it’s too late
Lmao love this
BLACK ☭Aug 9, 2021SeanLaurentParisThe fact that I haven't offed myself yet is a testament to my strength
me when I'm me
Aug 9, 2021
NBA GameBoyI felt this way until I discovered socialism and realized that maybe I wasn’t 100% to blame for every last one of my struggles and that a better world IS possible
You wanna elaborate?- Aug 9, 2021
well what is it that you actually like? stop worrying about what society would view as a "good career"
- Aug 9, 2021·editedSeanLaurentParis
I hate asking for help, but I also know I need it.
I think I might have undiagnosed ADHD, and I'm almost certainly depressed.
I'm failing out of college because 1 - I f***ing hate it, and 2 - I can't actually focus and do the work.
I can't motivate myself to leave the house let alone college work that I hate.I've also applied for law enforcement (not American, we don't even carry guns).
It's a varied, interesting, stable career but I'm still not convinced I actually want to go into it.At the same time I'm worried that seeking help for my mental health could jeopardise my chances of getting into the police, which it very well could.
I have no friends, I have some coworkers at my part time job who I talk to at work and over snapchat but that's honestly it..
Without them I'm just left with my parents and siblings...I'm 24, living at home with my parents in the countryside, with nothing to do and no one to meet.
I'm obviously having no luck meeting women, haven't for years..I'm so deeply unhappy in my current situation, I really feel like my life has gone wrong somehow and it's just ended me up here..
I hate college, there's nothing I'd actually want to change into and study, even if there was I couldn't afford it.
I'm really not one for physical labour, so I don't think learning a trade is the right step for me.
I don't know what to do..
I don't see a way out..you have a house, that alone is a massive plus, you can go outside and work out and get your self fit, thats step one.
how to cure all your issues,
SLEEP atleast 7/8 hours, most depression and mental health is due to sleep depravation, look this up and find a way to sleep better
Get fit, any kind of exercise but consistency is key, cut out carbs and sugars and it will do great for your mind
find something you want to do, it could be anything, s*** I promise you organic farming is going to be one of the biggest businesses in the future, or software engineering. Make some money so you can travel to europe and see different cultures, being 24 you have so much time its crazy but get on it NOW
Aug 9, 2021·1 replyNBA GameBoyI felt this way until I discovered socialism and realized that maybe I wasn’t 100% to blame for every last one of my struggles and that a better world IS possible
this sound like a good testimony for a commercial for socialism
- Aug 9, 2021NBA GameBoy
I felt this way until I discovered socialism and realized that maybe I wasn’t 100% to blame for every last one of my struggles and that a better world IS possible
nah you f***ed up lol find something better
- Aug 9, 2021·1 replyrnb sponge
this sound like a good testimony for a commercial for socialism
everyone love socialism until it happens lmaoo
- Aug 9, 2021·1 replynotglasspopcorn
everyone love socialism until it happens lmaoo
I think you might have a narrow view of what it is and what it could be.
what it means to different people.
that being said im not trying to derail this thread because capcom discussions dominate so much of this site lmao
- Aug 9, 2021·1 replyrnb sponge
I think you might have a narrow view of what it is and what it could be.
what it means to different people.
that being said im not trying to derail this thread because capcom discussions dominate so much of this site lmao
one of my parents literally from a country that actually had socialism/communism slightly work its still f***ing horrible and decimated the population for decades even after it. Ive studied Hegel, Marx n etc its always great in concept but as much as people hate capitalism its still the best option by far.
- Aug 9, 2021·1 replynotglasspopcorn
one of my parents literally from a country that actually had socialism/communism slightly work its still f***ing horrible and decimated the population for decades even after it. Ive studied Hegel, Marx n etc its always great in concept but as much as people hate capitalism its still the best option by far.
sorry they had 2 go through some s***, I think there's a lot of world political factors outside the baseline values of socialism that work their way into the situation too but im not trying 2 minimize what your parents had to deal with
one thing i think though is that capitalism is focused on ever expanding your wealth and making the most profits off of others labor etc so I can't fw a system that prioritizes that over the wellbeing of people
I think the aspect of just power in general f***s the game up for everybody which is a whole other thing
- Aug 9, 2021rnb sponge sorry they had 2 go through some s***,
I think there's a lot of world political factors outside the baseline values of socialism that work their way into the situation too but im not trying 2 minimize what your parents had to deal with
one thing i think though is that capitalism is focused on ever expanding your wealth and making the most profits off of others labor etc so I can't fw a system that prioritizes that over the wellbeing of people
I think the aspect of just power in general f***s the game up for everybody which is a whole other thing
it comes down to this, there will always be a way for whoever is in power to get full control in those systems eventually, manipulation and human greed will always be factor and its why it won't work, I actually would lean more Libertarian for a country like America because the basic principles are the hardest to actually get control over the populace. We already see that in America with any of the pro socialist movements that greed and manipulation has been initiated within.
Aug 9, 2021·1 reply
venusYou sound weak. You have one life, it’s worth attempting the s*** that scares you.
This is a horrible first post. @op needs motivation and hope, not shame.
- Aug 9, 2021JaeRell
This is a horrible first post. @op needs motivation and hope, not shame.
yeah i mean we all have weaknesses but it’s no small thing to call someone as a whole weak. wrong way to go about it
You could say somebody is weak in some areas and can now work on them
Aug 9, 2021You need to realize you can change any situation you don't like. A lot of people don't even have good relationships with their parents and siblings so you're in good shape to recover but find something you like to do, that you really like to do, and put 100% in it.
Life is about waking up everyday appreciating what we have and working towards what we want. You can improve in any area in life whether if it's money, b****es whatever. Just don't give up!!
Aug 9, 2021the grind is difficult and more often than not, you have to do it on your own. it takes discipline, which is more critical than motivation which can flutter.
start small and count your wins, whether it was something as small as making a new recipe or as big as running 500 metres without stopping.
try journaling and keeping track of where you are now and where you want to be in the future. nobody else is going to hold your hand and guide you through this part of your life brother. this is where you have to put in the work.
be grateful you have your family around as well.
Aug 9, 2021SeanLaurentParisI hate asking for help, but I also know I need it.
I think I might have undiagnosed ADHD, and I'm almost certainly depressed.
I'm failing out of college because 1 - I f***ing hate it, and 2 - I can't actually focus and do the work.
I can't motivate myself to leave the house let alone college work that I hate.I've also applied for law enforcement (not American, we don't even carry guns).
It's a varied, interesting, stable career but I'm still not convinced I actually want to go into it.At the same time I'm worried that seeking help for my mental health could jeopardise my chances of getting into the police, which it very well could.
I have no friends, I have some coworkers at my part time job who I talk to at work and over snapchat but that's honestly it..
Without them I'm just left with my parents and siblings...I'm 24, living at home with my parents in the countryside, with nothing to do and no one to meet.
I'm obviously having no luck meeting women, haven't for years..I'm so deeply unhappy in my current situation, I really feel like my life has gone wrong somehow and it's just ended me up here..
I hate college, there's nothing I'd actually want to change into and study, even if there was I couldn't afford it.
I'm really not one for physical labour, so I don't think learning a trade is the right step for me.
I don't know what to do..
I don't see a way out..Is healthcare free in your country, and if not, are you able to afford seeing a psychiatrist? Getting a proper diagnosis would probably be a good first step, there are a lot of comments in here essentially saying you should work hard and snap out of it which is absolutely terrible advice, but if you do have clinical conditions then you should absolutely see a professional. You are not weak and this is not the end of your story by a long, long shot