So basically I was best friends with this girl in college she always visited from her school to visit her best friend who went to the same school as me but once we move back home she confesses she has feelings for me I say I do too and we try a romantic thing but she lives across the country so it doesn’t really work and we decide to be friends since Covid happens and we don’t know when we gonna ever see each other again
She eventually ends up with a bf and then later back in cali in school close to me so we end up linking for a carti concert and have a great time me and my boy even end up staying at the hotel with her and her friends but we all kinda sleep in the same bed or couch so it doesn’t really seem like anything romantic but we did have a great time
Couple months later now and I think she still has her bf but she pretty much invites herself over to stay at my place this weekend and says she’s sad and misses me and needs to see me
What do you guys think? What should I do? I pretty much already told her yes but this is such a complicated thing with our past history and her having a bf now but still needing to see me what do you guys think is going on?

Why don't you ask her?

But dude I’m scared if I make her cheat it might Lowkey make me not want her anymore because if she’ll cheat with this dude she’ll cheat with me because I’ll still be 2 hours away
Edit: then once she’s done with school she might move back and be in the same city as that dude again like f*** man this so complicated because I really feel for shorty because we was best friends before anything

Why the f*** would I ask her and ruin the whole vibe

We agreed to be friends now tho so what if just a friend thing and I’m misreading the situation?

Cheating isn’t the way. Stand on your principles

I mean on one hand, if you misread the situation and make a move on her that could ruin the vibe too

The thing is no cheating is even explicitly mentioned at all
We agreed to be friends and when she asked to come over it was so we can go out and stuff because she said she needs a friend rn nothing ever sexual has came up and we’ve never even had s***before since when we were into each other it was long distance

Yea, this too ideally. Although you do got some chicks kinda stuck in a relationship where the power dynamic is off

Come on bro aint nby reading all that s*** in op

Its not cheating if she dont know

I don’t think I’ll make a move and just be hurt by this feeling we’ll never act on but both know is there

She's unfaithful af to her bf, you don't want to be her new bf g. Still give her the d*** tho

She’s a hoe but do you

I just don’t understand if she’s sad and stuff why is she running to me and not her boyfriend is it just because I can physically be there since we in the same place and he can’t? Or does she fr still care about me like I don’t know what to think of all this im so f***ing confused if this friend s*** or more

Maybe I misread the current situation, does she have a bf?

How is she unfaithful tho we’ve never done anything besides link at a concert and sleep in the same hotel room but it wasn’t like we were cuddling or anything we all slept on the floor

Well yeah he lives on the east coast where she’s from but now she’s in cali at school like 2 hours away from me

Not even mad at this take

If my girl tells me that she's staying the weekend over her male friend's house who she used to have feelings for, I'm breaking up with her. If she doesn't tell me, that doesn't make her any less unfaithful

Goddamn that’s a good point but I was supposed to bag first so he gonna have to take that L

Yeah you owe him nothing so

You owe her d*** tho and she locking up 48hrs of your time so she can collect

Ima feel foolish if I try something and she’s like wtf I have a boyfriend I can’t do this and I just completely ruin my friendship and she really does just wanna come over for my friendship