Birdie

5y

You just have to look acceptable. Once a women actually has feelings for you she actually starts seeing you as more physically attractive than before.

DR LONGSTROKE

5y

I think the standards of what is considered “acceptable” at the least is being pushed to a higher standard of attractiveness through social media exposing people to very attractive people constantly.

I think you just have to look acceptable if you’re talking with someone who is capable of appreciating other traits besides traditional physical attractiveness.

There are many people who will literally not even acknowledge somebodies existence beyond a moments interaction if they don’t meet the traditional standards for attractiveness. As in, no matter what you have going for you besides your physicality, if you don’t look the way society says you should to be considered generally attractive, they will not care to get to know you. They don’t see you as a human being worthy of consideration/worth getting to know or more then a moments acknowledgement.

Humans are f***ed up, there is a lot of superficial s*** that we value.

Birdie

5y

More mature girls understand looks aren’t everything and are willing to date a guy with other things going for them. Same thing with guys.

Once you get passed that initial barrier of looks and someone really gets to know you — as feelings develop so does their attraction to you.

losers aren’t capable of understanding this and don’t realize their problem most of time isn’t their looks.

Birdie

5y

People who you’re talking about though are actually pretty stupid and have poor judgement to begin with.

They aren’t worth dating and would have been bad choices for partners no matter the decade they were born in.

DR LONGSTROKE

5y

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How do you get past that initial barrier of looks for someone to get to know you if you have traits that are generally seen as unattractive though?

That’s the conversation people like to avoid and I don’t understand why. It’s an elephant in the room when it comes to these types of conversations.

Sometimes people are a******s or insufferable but some people really are unattractive to the point that most people won’t be into them. I feel sorry for those people.

DR LONGSTROKE

5y

Yeah but how does somebody know that until they approach them and try to put themselves out there in search of intimacy, only to get rejected because they don’t meet whatever physical standard the other person has?

Imagine being ugly and going through that all the time. S*** must suck lmfao

Birdie

5y

More mature girls understand looks aren’t everything and are willing to date a guy with other things going for them. Same thing with guys.

Once you get passed that initial barrier of looks and someone really gets to know you — as feelings develop so does their attraction to you.

losers aren’t capable of understanding this and don’t realize their problem most of time isn’t their looks.

Birdie

5y

Attraction is way more complex than looks

Stay off dating apps y’all

DR LONGSTROKE

5y

Bullshit. You do have to be good looking and if not that then at least in shape with the rest of your life together and really good social skills.

Y’all niggas need to stop capping on here like women don’t care about looks. Men and women are both shallow. Some People will write off your whole existence if they don’t find the way you look appealing.

Why do people say this dumb s***? “Oh looks don’t matter girls don’t care you just gotta be funny hahaha!”

Why is it socially accepted that men care about looks to a shallow degree but people constantly imply women don’t value shallow physical attractiveness when it’s obvious they do?

Humans are shallow and care about looks

DR LONGSTROKE

5y

Bullshit. You do have to be good looking and if not that then at least in shape with the rest of your life together and really good social skills.

Y’all niggas need to stop capping on here like women don’t care about looks. Men and women are both shallow. Some People will write off your whole existence if they don’t find the way you look appealing.

Why do people say this dumb s***? “Oh looks don’t matter girls don’t care you just gotta be funny hahaha!”

Why is it socially accepted that men care about looks to a shallow degree but people constantly imply women don’t value shallow physical attractiveness when it’s obvious they do?

Humans are shallow and care about looks

Q3D

5y

Actually I am thats what someone said in my thread earlier

bigb00dyxalimos

5y

Ong mfs gotta stop with that s***, most of these mfs are mfs who never got insecure because of their looks

Birdie

5y

You really need exposure to different kinds of women out there

onetwo

5y

KTT being a moral police site is boring

KTT is like an alt flavored Twitter now

bigb00dyxalimos

5y

the baddest b****es care more about your height, weight and looks than your own personality, and dont take me wrong, if youre ugly but with a good personality you'll have to work on my heart for it to start liking you

Birdie

5y

That’s the problem you’re focusing on getting the wrong kinds of girls and then feeling bad about it.

There’s plenty of very attractive girls out there who have a more holistic way of finding partners and getting to know them.

Good life tip: don’t be attracted to someone who doesn’t find you attractive; yes that’s possible

bigb00dyxalimos

5y

thanks for the advice I guess but I already got a gf

Birdie

5y

I’m just speaking generally my b

DR LONGSTROKE

5y

Bullshit. You do have to be good looking and if not that then at least in shape with the rest of your life together and really good social skills.

Y’all niggas need to stop capping on here like women don’t care about looks. Men and women are both shallow. Some People will write off your whole existence if they don’t find the way you look appealing.

Why do people say this dumb s***? “Oh looks don’t matter girls don’t care you just gotta be funny hahaha!”

Why is it socially accepted that men care about looks to a shallow degree but people constantly imply women don’t value shallow physical attractiveness when it’s obvious they do?

Humans are shallow and care about looks