She's okay for now, though it hasn't recovered fully and hardly any progress has been made since couple months ago. Ofc we had sexy times since then but it just doesn't feel the same.

Don't care though because I'm willing to be patient and know we'll get through this. At least you got a date your looking forward to

You a good man fr. Wish nothin but the best to you and your girl bro

She's not feeling well today all of a sudden and I'm doing my best to support her. But thanks though

yeah all you can do is all you can do. be there for her, keep a clean tidy space, cook, etc.
one day at a time n all that

It's what I try to do, though she most likely wants tonight to rest for herself. On the first day of her procedure I came through with items to help with recovery and groceries, saddens me seeing her like that

Hopefully she'll have enough energy tomorrow to go for a hike we were planning for during this week. If not, that's okay and we'll just do something else.

Cant avoid pain and responsibility and live

Only trust fund babies can afford the luxury of living life without difficulties. That's an unattainable life for people that come from an impoverished background.

Some people’s problems are better than others’

I don’t know but I feel like the universe intentionally makes s*** hard for me and tries to push me to my breaking point. im starting to take it personally, its exhausting

The latter

if your life is all about how you compare your suffering to others you’ll never make it out of samsara

All about preparation

Life will hit everyone, it’s how you cope with life’s curveballs

If the person that avoids pain and responsibility can handle the curveballs life throws then no it’s not necessary for them to drive themselves to pain

On the other hand, most of us cannot avoid struggle to become who we are. So most of us need the pain, to understand how sweet it feels when it all pays off. Without that pain, we value nothing.

Pain, responsibility and failure are inevitable for pretty much all people. If you avoid it, you'll be less prepared for when it eventually does strike you

Plants, you are wilding

Theres no such thing as a life that avoids pain
If you avoid everything, you will experience the pain of missing out

Pain builds character, we learn from pain. We grow from pain. Pain allows us to develop empathy for others. Best of all, pain is temporary. Responsibility makes us better towards other people and the world around us. Can't imagine wanting to live a life without either. Seems awful.

Yes. The answers yes.

Of course life is about balance tho but the answers yes. I’ve struggled financially before I’m never going through that “pain” ever again

Definitely not.

Avoiding pain and responsibility means avoiding anything that could challenge your confort zone. It means never overcoming your limits. It means being a coward. A happy life is a life of freedom. Being free means taking risks, facing pain and hardships.