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  • Nov 1, 2021
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    Bobby_96

    Personally, I don't recommend the PUA approach. It comes off too blatant sometimes but it can work if you have insane charisma.

    I usually just observe the scenario and pick up on certain things. Then, I'll start a convo with a girl based on that. It's not PUA because the build up is gradual.

    Like, at my job one time, there was a new girl who got hired from college and she started talking to some other employees about that. I paid attention then I just started off with "Oh. You went to school in X?" as if I wasn't already listening.

    Then I asked some more Q's in a casual way(not like a PUA or a job interviewer lol) and she felt comfortable just telling me her experiences and s***. And I was listening and making some jokes here and there. Then we ended up adding each other on IG that same day.

    The key is too present yourself well without coming off too forced.

    This is great..

    Feel like being observant isn’t my greatest skill at the moment.. Definitely think observing the situation (the prospective lady) would improve my luck tenfold

    Thank you for some actual advice instead of calling me a troll or an loser, I appreciate it

  • Nov 1, 2021
    valenciaga

    This is great..

    Feel like being observant isn’t my greatest skill at the moment.. Definitely think observing the situation (the prospective lady) would improve my luck tenfold

    Thank you for some actual advice instead of calling me a troll or an loser, I appreciate it

    No problem

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    Holding a door for a lady you find beautiful is “simping”? Lol

    I feel like you’re maybe one of the bad boys I mentioned in my original post

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    valenciaga

    Being a good and respectable guy is my true self

    I was raised to hold the door, pull out her chair etc.. basic signs of chivalry that are lost in todays society

    And I’m not dating to “get some p****” either.. I want a meaningful relationship and if s***happens it happens.. S***isn’t my focus

    "Holding the door, "pulling out the chair", "not dating for sex". Have you no self respect ?

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    Ok so what’s that line?

    Always considered myself a romantic lacking a means of which to display said romanticism

    It’s not in my nature to NOT be a gentleman, so I guess this is more-so me vs the societal implications that are precedented with the ravaging degeneracy of society in the 21st century, no?

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    "women love getting dogged"
    are u stupid?

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    O7OXO

    "Holding the door, "pulling out the chair", "not dating for sex". Have you no self respect ?

    Elaborate on this claim

  • Nov 1, 2021

    Ok?

    Have a nice night I appreciate your advice, I’m sorry you feel like I was trolling but I genuinely appreciate the insight you’ve provided

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    What’s the line between dominant and creepy/pushy?

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    Buy some of these @op

  • OP you need a boyfriend so you can see how women think, start asking boys out

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    valenciaga

    Holding a door for a lady you find beautiful is “simping”? Lol

    I feel like you’re maybe one of the bad boys I mentioned in my original post

    this is a goated troll thread i'm ngl

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    So if you aren’t blessed with great genes you’re hopeless, is what you’re saying? Lol

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    Jimminy

    Buy some of these @op

    Not into fancy clothes or designer or anything

    Worn the same vans for like 4 years, they work for me

  • Nov 1, 2021
    sky

    this is a goated troll thread i'm ngl

    Well I’m not trolling so I’m not sure what to tell you

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    valenciaga

    What’s the line between dominant and creepy/pushy?

  • Nov 1, 2021
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    sky

    Lol I don’t know blade, never really listened to carti either

    More into heavy metal and classic rock

  • Nov 1, 2021
    valenciaga

    Lol I don’t know blade, never really listened to carti either

    More into heavy metal and classic rock

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