They usually give up after years of giving it a chance, which is why a lot of dudes get jaded because there’s so much potential that just went to waste because the girl eventually regresses back to her mindset. A lot of people want things to be their way, and it often doesn’t come to fruition until you’re years deep in this dynamic where you’ve done like 99% right, but that mindset is that 1% they can’t get over.

So they leave cause achieving that mindset is what they think will make them happy, and I guess history is proving this isn’t necessarily all the way true and learning to compromise and change your perspectives is a key to happiness in relationships and honestly? With self, because now you don’t self sabotage a good thing.

It’s tough out here. But there are a lot of amazing women, just gotta keep vetting and don’t let a red flag slide, call that s*** out so they know you not vibing with that. She’ll either adjust or stick to her ways, but at least now you saved both of yourselves a lot of time. And this last part is very circumstantial, because people are REALLY good at faking nowadays. The dating game is so complicated today

Very well said. I'm in 100% agreeance. Gotta know what you want and set your boundaries.

My longest relationship has only been 2 years though so I'm not really one to give advice

Wanting to be 40 and still dating sounds kinda wild to me... I'm 29 and these hoes already starting to annoy the s*** out of me. Honestly s***is cool but I've kind of wore myself out of it lol. Trying to find a real 1 and lock her down asap.

2 years a long time bro, don’t talk down on your experiences many have never had I know you got some sauce haha

Thank you brother I appreciate those kind words! You're right. It just doesn't seem long compared to some of the numbers some of these people say when they tell me about their relationships but yeah love is love no matter the time spent.

I get the frustration @op is feeling though fr, I just got into something a little more serious after about a year of being single and dating / social life in general is getting worse for sure. I don't want to sound sexist but a lot of women these days are being brainwashed and manipulated by social media. I mean guys are too but girls are usually a little more susceptible to s*** like that.

Tough finding a mentally strong women who isn't already in a serious relationship fr.

I feel you bro. It’s a tough topic to discuss cause just being honest on your observations of life and how things are playing out can be misinterpreted are misogyny, like you were saying. It’s really wild to me how much social media has destroyed women’s perceptions on many things, guys too.

That last statement is so unbelievably true bro I’m happy for you. I believe she gonna show up on day. My 2 year relationship just ended for lack of mental strength on her side (her words). Is what it is

Can we mute @op

Bro been giving me school shooter loser vibes for months like a King Vamp goonprint vol 2.

Damn these older guys are F***IN and there you are suffering from DRY D***? Where is the government??

Lot of yall just need to go outside (i can tell a lot of this site dont) that is yall biggest problem.

I was 24 definitely effing with a shawty in her mid 40s a couple years ago

My girl 3 years older

POLICE ON THEIR WAY TO ARREST YOUR GIRL

all you gotta do is wait?

This is simply not true, some niggas cannot sniff p****

Ion buy It but I will say these hoes are GASSED

Yea I mean if u include prostitutes and ugly hoes

You sound overly judgemental

I think you’re focusing on useless hoes with no benefit, maybe try getting a woman with a job?

They'll show up for us all one day if we keep our heads high and our hearts open I believe that brother!! Sometimes it's about shifting our own perception too. I know a lot of people that spend so much time chasing perfection but sometimes it's about humbling ourselves and being grateful for the people we have and are willing to put up with our bullshit.

Keep you head up bro, it'll happen to us multiple times throughout our lives most likely. I was in the same situation with my last breakup about a year ago bro, s*** sucks bad but honestly it really does make us stronger in the end

Much love brother, we all gonna get there 💪

when I feel down bout myself I just pop into life sxn

you losers are truly unmatched

Bro said he wants a bailout