Like I always try to put my best foot forward with everyone and never pick on or bully anyone who didn't start with me. It's ultra strange that there are people out here who thought it was alright to mistreat me because of things they heard about me, not because I actually did anything to them.

This is especially bad when the person in question is a s***ty person themselves or the person who's spreading rumors. Just don't get it.

Pet peeve of mine aswell. I always try to observe and form my own judgement of a person regardless of what someone may say about them. I just keep their opinion noted

first impressions are really important. we take a lot of them to our grave with us, never to be pondered again.

i almost dated a girl once and i hated her ex based on stuff she told me. fast forward a few years and that guy and i are way tighter than her and i ever were.

assess and reevaluate

Sometimes you don't need to actually be the person affected to assess that what someone did is wrong and it isn't the type of person you want to be around.

sheeple be like that.

That's true but what I mean is niggas just be lying sometimes to protect their friends.

They realize picking on people to fit in helps them look cool

Overall hurt people hurt people. I know someone who was very one sided about things they wanted. That made it hard to keep cool. That’s an inside issue but if moving forward if someone doesnt understand how much you are going through that you’ve told them as getting to know The balance is going to be off

Might be people like me way more off or at the first impression than they do anytime after that haha

I don't think my crazy shows in most of my first impressions so I'd agree but I think I'm a pretty dope person anyways

if this is a common occurrence you might not actually be as good of a person as you think

It isn't. Just dealing with some pain still.

Thread title fried my brain lol