The last few chicks I had over I just been trying to establish a connection, see if she’s cool with me being physically intimate with her, and see how far I can get and f*** first night. I have to chill on that kind of approach. Too abrasive/aggressive.

You need to create the vibe, establish the connection, introduce a few light touches at the right times to make sure she’s on the same page and then try to go for the make out that leads to s***unless she’s already trying to f*** before y'all even make out.

I’ve been shooting myself in the foot with some chicks because I’ve been trying to get sexual too soon and it’s better reserved for the second link unless she’s just super dtf off rip. It took me having this thick ass lightskin cougar over tonight & kinda f***ing things up w her (I was a lil too aggressive and physical too quickly when I didn’t have to be, she already showed she’d prob be interested in f***ing me once she got to know me better) to see what I’ve been doing wrong with some chicks.

Gotta be less aggressive & more go with the flow. Gotta learn which one to be at the right time. That’s key. Sometimes I be f***ing up because I just don’t gaf enough to play things safer but I gotta stop lmao. Don’t wanna kill the vibe and don’t wanna disrespect the women I’m datin or make them feel any type of way. I need to be more smooth. I’m smooth setting up the meet up, it’s closing where I be too offensive sometimes. I wanna f*** but I need to learn how to make that interest known without making a woman feel like that is all I want and that I don’t care for or respect her because I do.

well duh no s*** on god y’all niggas got no game whatsoever

find some hobby to spend ur time because if u get bored the chances to f*** up some thing with overly thinking are too high

you gotta hang around ugly niggas more then fam cause this ain’t it

bro do you ever think you talk/think about s***too much

OP making a hundred threads from one failed link up, alright man we get it

op basically our sites version of wattpad fanfic

If we not f***in after 3 dates I'm taking it slow as hell. Like 180mph to 0 cuz im gone after that

lol making up a bunch of bs XD but you have a point

I already just know what to expect ngl.

"hi there! I've never heard of having boundaries with women! Look at me!"

Man saw his thread didn’t do numbers and turnt it up