Firstly i have to explain my point , but i just want to clear up some things beforehand.
The Label High Value Man is very hard to get, u have to be above average looking, rich, high status, and solid social skills. A Rich dork isnt A HVM, also a broke Male model also isn't one, out of pocket i would say that maybe 0,5% Of Male Population qualify for this label, arguably even less.
I also want to clarify that i don't support cheating, but i support the "telling her the truth and explaining to her that u will f*** other women, while you're dating but u will stay emotionally loyal to her" because in my opinion if she agrees to your parameters off a one side opened relationship there is nothing immoral about this.
This is the same thing with self improvement and becoming high value as a man, lets say someone grinds it out 5-10+ years, hits gym, maxizes his looks, becomes charismatic through life experience, gets rich, becomes high status, all those classic self improvement HVM things.
Do you really believe, someone is busting his ass 10 + Years to get the Reward off joe schmoe (1 monogamous relationship)? Think about it logically, the grind is way to big to accept the normal dating system, its logical.
Whats the point off having Lambos, bottles in the club, and all the other fancy s*** if you cant even reap the fruits off your labor?
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its not about settling
it's about how many guys in the world will wanna bump you off when they see a guy with a roster of women, including their girlfriend or wife, while they can't even keep one or get one.
envy and male pride will push ppl to extreme lengths
I feel like monogamy is pushed by society not to benefit women (women would benefit almost equally being a member of a harem or sister-wives type situation as compared to a monogamous marriage) but to keep the male population docile by ensuring a larger percentage of men are able to feel content with one woman vs having them grow angry and restless and finally crash out in massive numbers against the top 20 or so percent of guys who get all the women.
Biologically I don't think monogamy is natural in humans
The chances of a woman finding a man age 25-35, not married, of any race, at least 6’ tall, not obese, and with my salary
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Lol good luck sis. Add on top of that I’m handsome and jokes. Yea…
i agree with 2 out of these 3 sentences but i really trying to figure out why you shared the first
He made this: ktt2.com/biggie-was-fat-32552474
So…
loser Theory is destroyed by the fact that the lowest value men (broke, unemployed, criminal, and likely average looking) out here pulling dimes with 0 effort.
Have some charisma, never show desperation or neediness, have a spine, and have balls the size of boulders to shoot your shot no matter how 'out of your league' she is.. you gonna win at roulette table eventually
The manosphere really got niggas supplanting their familial masculinity for empty hedonism
I mean, do you, but if I'm gonna enter a relationship with a chick, she's gotta be so bad that I'm not seriously enticed by other women in the first place
just because you don’t think it doesn’t make it not real
we perceive things we don’t process 24/7
Hentai is low value behavior so you don’t understand anyways
so what makes you hate women?
loser Theory is destroyed by the fact that the lowest value men (broke, unemployed, criminal, and likely average looking) out here pulling dimes with 0 effort.
Have some charisma, never show desperation or neediness, have a spine, and have balls the size of boulders to shoot your shot no matter how 'out of your league' she is.. you gonna win at roulette table eventually
The manosphere really got niggas supplanting their familial masculinity for empty hedonism
I mean, do you, but if I'm gonna enter a relationship with a chick, she's gotta be so bad that I'm not seriously enticed by other women in the first place
Well you gotta be incredible at something
But how many of those broke and unemployed dudes could actually lock a dime down? They’ll d*** em down for one night, maybe even fool em into a relationship but sooner or later that girl gon realize she’s with a bum