Like they stuck in their ways, constantly focusing on all the negatives in their life, honing in on all that they lack, when they drive a car to work and shop at a grocery store and spend they evenings watching s*** or posting on twitter. All they seem to do is b**** and moan and really lean into that victim mentality.
This hard for me to say, I only ever told my therapist, but i was raped 8 years ago and i spiraled hard. I was weeks from a really well planned suicide. But instead i made it thru and now I'm prospering. But it's because i put in the work. I realized the countless blessings i had, and that i was worthy of love and respect. Especially from myself.
So when i see these people with a razor sharp focus on everything they think is wrong with them, or wrong with the world, i get it. But you can't live like that forever. Not peacefully or happily anyway. At some people you gotta keep it a buck with yourself and realize that sure, it might not be your fault that you're in the situation you're in, but it's your responsibility now.
Just some ramblings here i guess, i just wanted to share this somewhere other than my journal cuz i ain't on other social medias like that.
Peace and love y'all
One of mans greatest weakness is our gravitation towards comfort. Its morbid, but people can become comfortable and put up with a lot of s*** just because they find a way “to live with it”
Im very sorry to hear about what happened to you, but im even more happy and proud to know you came out on top.
A lot of people just decide to go with whatever happens, and find solace in shouting and flailing because its one of the small things they can completely control
"But you can't live like that forever. Not peacefully or happily anyway. At some people you gotta keep it a buck with yourself and realize that sure, it might not be your fault that you're in the situation you're in, but it's your responsibility now."
i feel you on this heavy. things kind of just happen and a lotta times people simply can't live their best lives even if they try. but as long as you're alive all you can really do is try. there's always a chance to push yourself to try new things and do your best with whatever you've got.
never too late. only time it's too late to try is when you're dead.
sorry you went thru that fam
what you said is facts tho
sending love your way and to everyone itt
❤️
Like they stuck in their ways, constantly focusing on all the negatives in their life, honing in on all that they lack, when they drive a car to work and shop at a grocery store and spend they evenings watching s*** or posting on twitter. All they seem to do is b**** and moan and really lean into that victim mentality.
This hard for me to say, I only ever told my therapist, but i was raped 8 years ago and i spiraled hard. I was weeks from a really well planned suicide. But instead i made it thru and now I'm prospering. But it's because i put in the work. I realized the countless blessings i had, and that i was worthy of love and respect. Especially from myself.
So when i see these people with a razor sharp focus on everything they think is wrong with them, or wrong with the world, i get it. But you can't live like that forever. Not peacefully or happily anyway. At some people you gotta keep it a buck with yourself and realize that sure, it might not be your fault that you're in the situation you're in, but it's your responsibility now.
Just some ramblings here i guess, i just wanted to share this somewhere other than my journal cuz i ain't on other social medias like that.
Peace and love y'all
npc lifestyle. its easy to stay the same. hard as f*** to make lasting change.
Wild how I had a horrible day, open life sxn and this is the first thread that pops up and it applied to everything in my life atm
Thank you @op
@op a goated poster
hey ty man
Wild how I had a horrible day, open life sxn and this is the first thread that pops up and it applied to everything in my life atm
Thank you @op
yw man, keep on living and loving