One of her male friends who I’m somewhat cool with dmed me today and told me everything about how she was messing with another dude on the side and how she had tried making a move on him a week ago and that’s why he told me.

Honestly for some reason it didn’t really affect me too much, I confronted her about it and she got mad defensive and started insulting me which told me everything I needed to know. Kicked her out and gave her some money to stay at a hotel while she figures out where she’s gonna be staying.

Gonna have to get used to living by myself again but other than that I’m not finna lose sleep over someone who doesn’t respect me.

MESSED UP

That friend is real

Honestly imma prolly start hanging out with this nigga now

She really wasn't worth it at all if you didn't feel anything

Take this opportunity to find comfort in solitude and reevaluate your relationships.

Take your self out on dates too, like don’t just stay home and not go out to eat a nice meal and a drink cause you’re alone bro. Groom yourself, put on a nice fit and go out. Some of these things don’t need to be a couples activity and people miss out on it cause they categorize it as “relationship stuff”

Once you have fun on your own you’ll really only tolerate someone else around who adds to the experience and you wont lower your standards. Hope this helps bro.

Nah we’ve been together forever it’s more so how I lost her that’s making me feel this way.

you say you don’t care

but wait until tonight

when you wake up at 3am

and she’s not there

and you reach for the knife

I usually wake up at 8am tbh

Glad you took it that way, that’s exactly how you should as a man

Now you can become the best version of yourself possible, make her miss you, and f*** all of her friends

Enjoy your new beginning OP

That friend just certified himself for life.

Do right by him from now on forever. Keep what is rare.

He’s not even my friend fr he’s her peoples but I’ll definitely start hanging out with him solid guy

your first mistake was giving her money to stay at a hotel. f*** that b****.

Respectfully

ion want the b**** calling the cops on me saying the black man is kicking her out

Ahh she's white that's understandable

Asian

I'm at a lost for words

On Monogamy Monday

Seems like you have a great perspective on it though. Didn't give her the satisfaction of a big fight, just indifferently kicked her out. On to better things my friend

Not caring about s*** is goated @op

I’m taking a s*** listening to grimes rn

One of the few times where not being weird about your girl having male friends worked out in someone’s favor. To be honest though he might just really be a really real one that’s rare to come across nowadays cause on the other hand look at what she tried to pull off with a male friend. Had this dude not been a real one this situation could’ve been an example of the complete opposite.

That being said he just showed exactly why he should be his friend.

Whew

Yes if we’d broken up for any other reason I’d probably be crying but idk I tbh cheating is just lame can’t get mad because she doesn’t respect me or herself

She sent me this after I blocked her number, the man literally sent me ss of you tryna get with him and a video of you with another nigga