The guiding principle is be attractive. That’s what matters. Stereotypical “Nice guys” lose because they think s***is a barter system. It’s not. Success with women is never “u get what u give”. Attractiveness is all that really matters.

OK so how does one cultivate attractiveness. Let’s start with not being unattractive. There are standards almost every girl has that must be met, failing to meet these makes you unattractive. Here’s a basic outline:
1. Smell good (shower daily, brush teeth, mint gum if needed. Easy)
2. Be aware of your hair (NO 3 IN 1 WHEN U SHOWER)
3. Good posture
4. Don’t be annoying/unfunny (if ur an over thinker u don’t have to worry about this one most likely)
5. Don’t be way out of shape
6. Dress somewhat competently (u don’t need rick Owens or Raf Simons just coherent fits. Girls tend to like hoodies/sweatpants, basic is fine.)
7. Minimize weird tics (although if ur past a certain level of physically attractive weird tics actually work in ur favor)
8. Have friends
9. Have hobbies/interests (girls don’t like guys who seem like they don’t do anything, weirds em out. Video games don’t count here)
10. Don’t be desperate (its okay to joke about being thirsty or whatever but never actually direct that thirst towards a person)

Hopefully u don’t have to worry about any of that, but u would be surprised by how many people are somehow missing something on this list. There’s a thing called an “ick” which is basically another word for turn-off that some girls use, it could be literally one thing about a guy but it will kill anything before it even starts. Icks are almost always just ways a guy fails to meet these baseline expectations. Avoiding any and all icks is so key I cannot stress this enough. Depending on who your competition is, not having any icks might literally be all it takes to get attention.

OK now that you have avoided negatives, what works as positive? Attractiveness is not just what you look like, its everything else about you too. Conventional good looks go a long way but are by no means essential. Here are a few things you can do to cultivate attractiveness:
1. BE FUNNY (this one is absolutely massive funny guys will always take Ws)
2. Be the strong silent type (a time tested strategy. The key to this one is confident body language. Say with posture/movements what other say with words. As always, don’t overdo it)
3. Be corny (genuine, heartfelt guys will always take Ws. We call them corny, girls call them cute)
4. Be really smooth (think really really good pick up lines. This is a risk because if you fail you just come off as creepy)
5. Nice bod (hit the gym. This always works)
6. Fashion (ok maybe going gorpcore won’t help but being noticeably well dressed is always a W, the more unique/standout the better)
7. Art (music, drawing, sculpting, photography, etc. somehow this doesn’t apply to film as much?)
8. Nonchalance (the less of a s*** you give, the better. get her interest, then make her think you don’t care about her interest at all. If you really want to go crazy with this, text her just her name, at an “angel number” time if possible, then don’t answer for two days. This one is crazy effective, also very hard to pull off.)
9. Clout/popularity (know everyone, be liked by everyone. Also crazy effective, also hard to pull off)
10. Wealth (if all else fails, get money. Money is always attractive, no matter what you look like

Bonus tips:
1. KNOW YOUR DEMOGRAPHIC. What art hoes like isn’t what hood girls like isn’t what basic b****es like. Know who you are talking to, be smart. Certain demographics (gamer girls, band kid girls, theater girls) will literally take anybody who exemplifies even just one strong positive, even if there are many icks.
2. Play to your strengths. Know yourself, understand your body type, your interests, etc. build on what you have, don’t try to be someone you are not. It’s like fashion where your natural proportions determine what fits work and which ones don’t. For example, I’m a skinny white guy, sometimes awkward, make music. My best path is strong/silent, art, fashion. If I tried to be the funny guy or the corny guy I would probably only go backwards.
3. I know everyone knows this but BE CONFIDENT. Confidence is so key. You have to believe you are attractive if you want her to find you attractive

In conclusion, if you have trouble finding success with women, follow this guide. Spitting game is fun but the outcome of most endeavors is decided before a single word is said to ur girl of choice. Attractiveness is key. Try not to overthink. remember, if you are attractive, exactly what you say to her doesn’t really matter that much, and if you follow this guide you WILL be attractive.

@supercute idk ur thread titles make me worry sometimes

i thought it was cam’ron smh

Thank you fashion killa!

thats crazy op cause ive been thinking ctrl v

hey u never know who needs it

sometimes im a lil concerned for this sxn

“If you really want to go crazy with this, text her just her name, at an “angel number” time if possible, then don’t answer for two days. This one is crazy effective, also very hard to pull off.”

This is the dumbest s*** ever lol I hope no one take this bit seriously

An esoteric mf could pull that off

dont listen to OP, Gorpcore gets women.

hey I said go crazy, id never do that s*** lmao

I feel like it would work tho...

I mean most of these “getting p****” type threads revolve around the same thing which is basically making sure you’re at your best maximum self before approaching a woman, and if a guy doesn’t understand that without having to research it he probably won’t have much success just reading a few paragraphs anyways

thanks man! bout to text her just her name and not reply

if only she knew I was wearing Salomon ...

lmk how it goes im actually so curious

If fashion sxn en masse get in here with you

@op Can you give some examples of weird tics?

im using tics in a super loose sense

so like. if u stand w all ur weight on one leg. looks gay. what ur hands do is important too. dont be fidgeting weirdly.

i just did the text her name thing

ill post updates lol

You wrote all this s*** and I will not read it

I have two girls pregnant rn and in a penthouse f***ing a hot asian girl raw

why no 3 in 1

I cosign this.

I'll add a few things:

A - Don't try to be everybody at once. Not everything is for everybody, you'll send vibes like you're a fake dude who doesn't have knowledge of self and creep everyone out. Stick to one personality, people who have multiple personalities more often than not have none.

B - Use clashes to your advantage. If you appear to be hood, show em the books you're reading. If you appear to be a little more geeky, try to do some cool s*** once in a while. Women will put you in a box so fast, when you break out of that box, it gets their attention. But don't forget rule A, overdoing it is worse than anything.

love u bro bro

Totally agree with you Killa!