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  • Jul 13, 2020

    I mean it's hard to see it another way lol. Like if I text you "how are you?" and you respond to me 6 hours after having read it I'm just kind of confused.

  • i’m not a sociopath so i don’t have read receipts on

  • Jul 13, 2020
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    DeShazor

    If you can't respond to a damn text, you're a degenerate

    At least say ''I'm busy'' or some s*** or if it's a deep convo and you don't know what to say then don't even open the text

    I gotta say I’m busy? I feel like that beats the whole point of texting

  • Jul 13, 2020

    It’s just a d***head thing to do

  • Jul 13, 2020
    frank 2022

    I gotta say I’m busy? I feel like that beats the whole point of texting

    No you don't have to do anything, no one's forcing you to do anything, I'm just speaking common sense, sorry

  • Jul 13, 2020

    it just feels like some entitlement in here. That or you’ve all been hurt

  • Jul 13, 2020

    Who careeees

  • Jul 13, 2020

    sometimes i dont wanna talk nothing to do wit them
    sometimes theres nothing to add to convo
    sometimes i dont really know what i wanna respond immediately with and forget

    but i do feel like if u really wanna reply you gon make sure to reply

  • Jul 13, 2020
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    also imagine actually having read receipts on lmao

  • Jul 13, 2020

    It's can be annoying to carry on a conversation you don't care about at the time. I don't see the big deal

  • Jul 13, 2020
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    flackojodye

    Nope

    F*** people who do this. If you’re a decent human being you would atleast say you’re busy. I f***ing despise people who just ignore others

    What about people who like to take a moment to think about what they want to say before blurting out whatever randomly? If its that important than call

  • Jul 13, 2020
    user

    also imagine actually having read receipts on lmao

  • Jul 13, 2020
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    BANNED

    What about people who like to take a moment to think about what they want to say before blurting out whatever randomly? If its that important than call

    That takes more than a few minutes?

    How do you have conversations in person then? You be pausing middle of conversations?

  • Jul 13, 2020

    Sometimes I see a text really late and just don’t end up replying because it’s already like 2 days after I got it

  • Jul 13, 2020
    flackojodye

    That takes more than a few minutes?

    How do you have conversations in person then? You be pausing middle of conversations?

    I have mad adhd so if I can't think of what I want to say immediately I'm not gonna remember to reply to a single text I got until I see it again

  • Jul 13, 2020
    Shammy

    I just wanted to get ktts opinion on this

    90% of the time I leave someone on read it's either because I was busy and just wanted to make sure the message was nothing urgent, or I simply forgot to respond.

    But ppl make it out to be some sort of passive aggressive insult. Like it's just not that deep most of the time.

    How many of you actually leave people on read purposefully vs. it just being an accident? Has it ever f***ed u over when you accidentally left someone on read?

    Just depends on who u talking to tbh. Most friends of mine do it to me and I do it to them, so long as it's not a question there's never a problem.

    Occasionally can be a problem, especially with a romantic interest - if they're used to texting people all day every day then it kinda makes sense that they'll catch feelings when u do this, even if it's not your intention.

    You can try and explain your outlook if they get pressed and hope they understand, but some of them are never gna be happy about it

  • Jul 13, 2020
    user

    also imagine actually having read receipts on lmao

  • Jul 14, 2020
    flackojodye

    That takes more than a few minutes?

    How do you have conversations in person then? You be pausing middle of conversations?

    It's different cus in person ur personality might involve more body language or expression so typing out ur thoughts won't sound right