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  • Melz ⚜️
    Oct 29, 2024

    As I’m writing this, I just had one of the best weeks ever. I can genuinely say that I’m happy and I’m self improving every single day. Legit cried on Friday just because I was so happy. Just did 15 days of the gym in a row. I can feel the world opening up to me day by day. I’m down almost 30 pounds in 7 months and have built muscle. I’m getting a bunch of attention from women and compliments everyday about looking better

    As recent as a year ago I was depressed and felt extremely unworthy

    I feel better than ever and have more energy than ever. You can do it too but it takes true honesty about your habits and lifestyle. We all have so much potential and we waste it daily doing bullshit or making reasons why we can’t be better. F*** that, take charge of your life and strive to be better with everything

    Im getting compliments from people daily, stares from women, recognized at my job for hard work, women friends asking me out, attention from women at bars, even my friends sister who curved me six months ago just randomly followed me on Instagram the other day.

    The. World. Is. Yours.

    But only if you are truly honest with yourself and strive to be better. You can do anything man but you have to do it yourself. Nobody is coming to save you and that’s a promise

    Peace and love and honestly I might start coaching so if anybody wants to be my test subject with free coaching for weight loss and fitness lmk lol I just have so much passion to share and I’m going through it all rn

  • Oct 29, 2024
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    good s*** man, but my advice to you is to realize you are coming off of a “high” so evb kinda feels like this when they notice what has changed. Don’t let a downward spiral/setback f*** up all your progress which i’ve seen happen with friends. It’s how you face the future challenges thats gonna test you from here on out

  • Melz ⚜️
    OP
    Oct 29, 2024
    slime wrld

    good s*** man, but my advice to you is to realize you are coming off of a “high” so evb kinda feels like this when they notice what has changed. Don’t let a downward spiral/setback f*** up all your progress which i’ve seen happen with friends. It’s how you face the future challenges thats gonna test you from here on out

    That’s a good call I’d say thank you for the advice

    Honestly the negative stuff doesn’t really matter to me anymore I kinda let it roll off after not ignoring it

    Last week I was on the highway and some concrete flew off a car and f***ed up part of my car but honestly it didn’t even make me upset

    Everything I said in OP started with a mindset shift. All the good is just fruits of the labor after fixing my mental state. I am enjoying challenges and setbacks because it gives me new opportunity to learn

  • Oct 29, 2024
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    this makes me want to lock in .

  • Oct 29, 2024
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    This sounds like the same euphoria I felt when I achieved 6% body fat. Happy for you op

  • Melz ⚜️
    OP
    Oct 29, 2024
    CutiePieHole

    this makes me want to lock in .

    I felt hopeless ugly and depressed a year ago

    Today people are inspired by me, women keep giving me attention (I’ve always had game tho), and I don’t think I’ve ever been happier

    You aren’t different from the people who are successful and happy and jacked. There’s nothing separating you from the so called “elite”. It’s all hard work and consistency and honesty with yourself and habits

    I can’t even imagine where I’ll be in a year or two on this path

  • Melz ⚜️
    OP
    Oct 29, 2024
    Cherrywine1

    This sounds like the same euphoria I felt when I achieved 6% body fat. Happy for you op

    That sounds crazy I’m tryna eventually get there. I said to my friend that me and him are doing a natural bodybuilding show in 2027

    Thats my goal is to be looking crazy by then and just compete for fun to say I did it

  • BRUNTZ 🖤
    Oct 29, 2024

    good sht bro this is inspiring

  • Oct 29, 2024

    Nice congratz

  • Oct 29, 2024

    Unrelated but locked in is the new rizz

  • Oct 29, 2024
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    slime wrld

    good s*** man, but my advice to you is to realize you are coming off of a “high” so evb kinda feels like this when they notice what has changed. Don’t let a downward spiral/setback f*** up all your progress which i’ve seen happen with friends. It’s how you face the future challenges thats gonna test you from here on out

    Yea when them compliments fade away, and the motivation takes a massive downturn, and you back to square one mentally, that’s when the real locking in begins not attention from women lol. When I’m locked in 110%, I could give a f*** if a lady said “wow you look good” cause ma’am I’ve always looked good to me and you just noticing now?

  • Melz ⚜️
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    Oct 29, 2024
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    Valentine

    Yea when them compliments fade away, and the motivation takes a massive downturn, and you back to square one mentally, that’s when the real locking in begins not attention from women lol. When I’m locked in 110%, I could give a f*** if a lady said “wow you look good” cause ma’am I’ve always looked good to me and you just noticing now?

    I get what u mean but in my opinion and experience so far I’m raising the floor of my supposed “square one”

    I grinded for 6 months straight discipline before most ppl noticed in the first place and when I was happy with myself is when the good things started coming

    I definitely get what ur saying but trust me I’m already running off straight discipline. I drive an hour home after working past 5pm and go to gym as the main priority after work even when I don’t want to

  • Melz ⚜️
    OP
    Oct 29, 2024

    Not saying I have everything figured out or I won’t go through tribulations and setbacks but I’m so locked in rn it’s crazy and I feel amazing in general health wise

    I haven’t weighed this low since I was like 15 lol and I’m way more muscular

  • Oct 29, 2024
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    This dude gonna crash.

    Seems superficial

  • Oct 29, 2024
    Melz

    As I’m writing this, I just had one of the best weeks ever. I can genuinely say that I’m happy and I’m self improving every single day. Legit cried on Friday just because I was so happy. Just did 15 days of the gym in a row. I can feel the world opening up to me day by day. I’m down almost 30 pounds in 7 months and have built muscle. I’m getting a bunch of attention from women and compliments everyday about looking better

    As recent as a year ago I was depressed and felt extremely unworthy

    I feel better than ever and have more energy than ever. You can do it too but it takes true honesty about your habits and lifestyle. We all have so much potential and we waste it daily doing bullshit or making reasons why we can’t be better. F*** that, take charge of your life and strive to be better with everything

    Im getting compliments from people daily, stares from women, recognized at my job for hard work, women friends asking me out, attention from women at bars, even my friends sister who curved me six months ago just randomly followed me on Instagram the other day.

    The. World. Is. Yours.

    But only if you are truly honest with yourself and strive to be better. You can do anything man but you have to do it yourself. Nobody is coming to save you and that’s a promise

    Peace and love and honestly I might start coaching so if anybody wants to be my test subject with free coaching for weight loss and fitness lmk lol I just have so much passion to share and I’m going through it all rn

    dm me

  • Melz ⚜️
    OP
    Oct 29, 2024
    Knx

    This dude gonna crash.

    Seems superficial

    I’m just trying to inspire others with what I have done so far

    We can all do it one step at a time

  • Oct 29, 2024

    Good to see fellow Wayne Stan's striving

  • Gonna lock in now. Happy for you tho, LFG 🦾🦾🦾

  • Knx

    This dude gonna crash.

    Seems superficial

    You’re a f***ing d*** man

  • Oct 29, 2024
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    You're probably gonna think im just being a hater but really locking in is locking in silently. If you feel the need to share your accomplishments you're seeking outside validation. Move quiet and let your results speak for themselves

  • Melz ⚜️
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    Oct 29, 2024
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    WFH

    You're probably gonna think im just being a hater but really locking in is locking in silently. If you feel the need to share your accomplishments you're seeking outside validation. Move quiet and let your results speak for themselves

    Respectable opinion. I just enjoy uplifting others and I’m not posting this for validation lol

    I’m posting this bc I know a lot of ppl on here struggle with mental health and self sabotage. I have been the same way my whole life. If one person reads this thread and starts going hard then I’ve done my job

  • Oct 29, 2024
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    Melz

    Respectable opinion. I just enjoy uplifting others and I’m not posting this for validation lol

    I’m posting this bc I know a lot of ppl on here struggle with mental health and self sabotage. I have been the same way my whole life. If one person reads this thread and starts going hard then I’ve done my job

    If someone else has to motivate you then you already lost. You're either born a hustler or you ain't bro

  • Melz ⚜️
    OP
    Oct 29, 2024
    WFH

    If someone else has to motivate you then you already lost. You're either born a hustler or you ain't bro

    That’s not true

    Your environment is half the battle. You develop habits and trends that stick and evolve over time

    At the end of the day we are dumb animals. You can train yourself to be better genuinely lol. The mind is powerful and shapes your reality

    To say you are born X or Y is to say you are unable to grow and change which is bs

  • Oct 29, 2024

    real

  • Oct 29, 2024

    This niggaa spittin