Nah an ex is an ex for a reason

Maybe they were simply meant to be a lesson about humans and love and how it affects you as a human

Like even if I'd see her back, I wouldn't be mad but I know already it simply wouldn't work

Most likely u are now both changed individuals too, for better or worse

And I feel like, at the time ya started ya relationship, u were in a certain phase of life, a different person and the only compatibility code this relationship worked with, was that one.
So now ur locks have been renewed, meaning the key will not fit anymore as it used to

And love is something u cannot force or turn on

Even when I kissed my ex after shr begged me to, cause she noticed that id become less physically intimate, it ended being the worst kiss ever, it had no soul, no adrenaline, no freedom, no warmth, nothing

Because I was already changing as a person and this new me realized she wasn't the one

Please god no

nah man im on to the next

crazy he made this as a ploy to get back cassie nasty work went on a whole press run simping to get her back after he spent years abusing her

nah she got married and actually seems very happy to be with her new guy who’s from the same cultural heritage

still got a bit of love for her but I don’t think it would have worked long term fr

exes are exes for a reason. let it be

damn

super mature and insightful s***

it can be hard to accept that the person you used to be head over heels for is just someone you're not compatible with anymore

I can't imagine going through that inner dialogue with a spouse who you've already built a life with, had kids with and all

but it happens everyday

common prettyflacko comment btw. him and brave some of the realest when it comes to posting about being a man in relation to other men and women

Thanks man
And exactly it's the hardest ever, cause ur heart is still in love but the mind ain't, or vice versa

So ur not even fighting with ur girl for ur girl, but with urself
Ur really fighting to convince yourself to luv someone

It's such a bitter and hard pill to swallow, cause tbh u don't even recognize the person in front of u anymore
And like u said with marriages it's so much tougher, u c ppl literally clinging onto each other for years to try and make it work, even if it's for da kids, but the atmosphere u create isn't suitable for any party involved

I even remember friends literally advising me to stay with her cause she was pretty and rich
Alot of ppl just can't make that decision for their own sake
Scared of loneliness or never finding someone else

But I prioritize my own mental health above anything since that relationship
It's a valuable lesson u learn

Cause in all honesty it would also be toxic of myself to actually think I could fix and control someone elses life ya dig
That's not how it should be in a healthy relationship
It should be equal imo otherwise I'd feel like a mentor or sorta dad lmao were adults ya know ppl should be able to reflect and make decisions for themselves

Appreciate da luv dawg
Honestly c KTT as some sort of diary or like place to articulate my inner thoughts/ideas/conclusions about s*** I've been through irl and notice

Can't cap alot of ppl older than me tell me I'm pretty damn wise for my age, going through alot of faces and phases in life does that

But fr just want the best for the ppl, I don't give them answers or keys, I just give them a perspective, can't force anyone to do anything plus I don't know everything, everyone's life is so unique, it's impossible to have a standard answer thats applicable to everyone 🙏🏽

Sorry bro, your ex with @Zaywop now 😔🤞

Get a grip

Lock this thread. F*** her

perfect time to have a baby, that’ll fix it

I’ll kill her new nigga just to be petty fr. Young white s***= Old white f*** nigga that pay for p****

been there done that doesn’t work

"PS: if she’s a psychopath may she find her way through a lobotomy and may her lobotomy make her find a way to you"

Did you watch the notebook brother

Horrible thread

How long were you feeling like this before you had "the talk" with her? Were there moments where you thought you fell out of love but then it came back (even for a short period)? Or once it was gone it was gone forever.

I must say for awhile
Cause for me, it was the first time going through this, I was really sorta conflicted
I knew something was off but not quite sure what

Matter of fact she started hinting towards it
That I was different

I remember even asking my parents first; is there a difference in behavior on my part, when am here alone or with ma girl?
And they answer was; yes ur diff, but in a bad way, when she's hear the energy shifts negatively

And I for sure tried to fight the feeling, cause u obv want to fight for your love

But then everytime I'd see her again, this feeling literally dissolved and I ain't wanna be near her like that,it felt like a chore lmao

That's when I had the Convo

And tbh after the convo(s) we still met up, but nothing ever changed my decision
She tried everything, begged etc but my mind was up, like I said love is not negotiable

And when that wore off too I started to c the true toxic/insecure monster she really was too, it's harsh but I literally felt disgust looking her in the eyes
Cause I saw a totally diff person, u could say the "real her" and that image never changed until she disappeared forever

We just f***ed again after a year

Crazy never thought it would happen again