Last month or so I proceeded to declare our relationship on a “break” to further prioritize my time with my son and also to kick-start my studying with the CPA exam. Having to explain all this to my GF was hard, made it clear it was nothing personal with her and more about my life priorities. All was good, had extra time opened up while grinding and wrecking my brain out for this stupid exam.

Yesterday I attempted to meet my I guess GF for lunch. Shes doing fine, hanging in there with work and salsa dancing (Which I’m proud of her dancing with advanced folks). In addition, I’m glad she brought a lovely gift for my son, which was really sweet of her.

What bothers me is when I brought up the question of any involvement with 3rd party, she did have one couple weeks back. Met this gentleman at a bar, supposedly a car salesman type of guy. Both were drunk, and from her words they “kissed touched each other” and this threw me into a loop. Why bother getting involved with another bloke when your man is putting in work to better his life and career? Was under the impression that going on a break means taking time to focus on ourselves, not diddle with another person

To say the least we ended the lunch hangout amicably and told her that I’ll reconsider this relationship. What’s y’all’s advice? She’s very cute, smart, supportive of me and my son, and easy going.

Just don’t know how to feel about this.

U r wrng for this!

leave dat b****

no s***

nvm op roleplayin

Didn’t read but breaks don’t work

Would sexual acts with others during breaks count as cheating though? I’m just confused and feel it’ll be hard to get over this. I never thought she’d be the type to engage with this behavior

Feel like I f***ed up

Leave her

You initiated the break therefore she wasn’t wrong to pursue other things sucks for you bruh but it’s the truth

The moment someone says break, it’s a wrap. In this case, she clearly doesn’t value & respect you enough if she’s gonna pull a Ross on you.

Nah nigga

This the girl that wanted you to be friends with a dude that she had a one night stand with

Your a fool

Yup

I feel like it’s generalizing but most people know when someone says they want to take a “break” it’s so f*** with other people so I mean maybe that’s how she took it. OP seem like a good dude so I feel bad but the game is the game

Now it brings to the million dollar question, would this constitute as cheating?

Yes nigga. That’s still your girlfriend.

F***

Not your fault. She for the streets

@A_New_Impression tell ‘em

Nah bro. It’s opportunistic for sure on her part but like I said technically she ain’t in the wrong since yall aren’t together

Breaks introduce a grey area that blur lines. I would end it with this news but that's just me

those always work

shes entitled to a 30 minute break, leave her alone