can stop by a spirit halloween rq and see whats up

thats fire though u can break hella ice

Ballet / organized dance
Swimming
Crossfit
Yoga
Polo (might not be the most attractive across the board, but they get bonus points bc they typically come from money)

you can also just talk to em lmao.

flirting is nothing but knowing how to have a conversation. :U

@op

being a pmf is 80% of the battle

if you look good, you'd have to be on some nut s*** for them to curve you

why are you even worried about getting their socials anyway? worry about pulling someone

master the law of detachment, focus on building yourself up & attract what you want instead. Going to s***ty frat parties looking for someone to love ain't gonna work in your favor, especially when your goal of going is meeting 10-20 women the more you push the more they will pull.

Study groups, join in on extracurricular activities
Literally all you have to do is talk to them.

Parties ain’t a way to go about getting in a serious relationship.

Facts lol

Right this is why I focus on hygiene, appearance, body, and health first. I’m doing great mentally just trying to get a girl, but you’re right though, trying too hard will only make things more difficult.

Just in case I lose them or they leave. Plus the music is loud asf, maybe dm’ing them on IG could be more beneficial in the long run.

My only advice is to not use LinkedIn to slide in anyone’s DMs

Is that really a thing lol

Pull up in a pirate costume with ur parrot

I’ve heard from some girls that people have tried lol

You’re right. I’ve been focusing on myself for awhile now, and when woman have approached me I’ve fumbled almost all of my chances in the past. Really I just need some more hobbies and to refine my talking/texting skills.

He’ll learn the hard way

I guess what I was trying to say is don't go with just the goal of meeting women, and definitely don't set a certain time frame to have a gf by lol just go have a good time my boy, what's meant for you can't pass you by

And even that is like subjective lmao

met a shawty dressed as drake this last halloweekend she cool asl lol have fun @op

This might actually be the most positive thread @op has ever made

thats dumb. your best bet is striking up a conversation with someone. if they’ve left then its already over.

This works 9/10 times

'I also didn’t want to appear desperate and ask for anyone’s number/IG.'

?????

Whatttt!!! she's the one for sure