23 likes on first reply
unless thats a joke and its going over my head
Whole first page is disgusting, and these idiots are still cracking jokes
Whole first page is disgusting, and these idiots are still cracking jokes
what did i do?
what did i do?
Generalizing obviously, sorry
bro you're still so young. have you told her about your sexuality yet? i understand some parents can be super conservative when it comes s*** like this but i honestly think it's for the best if just tell her
Generalizing obviously, sorry
all good
the thing where people try to think of the meanest/most shocking thing they can post just to try to get the most likes is annoying
Lowkey turnin into twitter.
bro you're still so young. have you told her about your sexuality yet? i understand some parents can be super conservative when it comes s*** like this but i honestly think it's for the best if just tell her
Her reaction to anything feminine is pretty negative so I’m afraid to even put that idea in her head
Honestly OP, this isn't the best place to be asking for advice on this situation. I'm certain that you aren't the first person to be in this position and there are likely other communities online that could provide valid insight.
Good luck & I hope everything works out.
Her reaction to anything feminine is pretty negative so I’m afraid to even put that idea in her head
i obviously don't know exactly how your mum is but maybe you could slowly ease yourself into telling her? unless she's some type of devot religious person and is absolutely against your sexuality i think you have to at least try to tell her. maybe she'll come around
since you're only 16, you definitely can plant the seeds now to tell her about your sexuality in a couple years.
and if she still doesn't accept it, f*** her
sleep with one of her friends and record it then show her and ask if that’s masculine enough tbh
Some parents really suck like that. Sorry.
If you feel like your mother is going to make your life actively worse until you're 18 if you tell her, you really don't have to tell her. I wouldn't hide who you are, just don't sit her down and make a whole thing about it. When you move out and tell her, she won't be surprised.
Her reaction to anything feminine is pretty negative so I’m afraid to even put that idea in her head
U gotta nut up and just tell her, then say if she has any problems then u moving out and she ain gone stop you
I’ve always just wanted to be loved by her but she’s always made me feel like there is something wrong with me
ah s*** easy to feed into that too
parents got the most potential to cut deep when it comes to personal comments they don't even realize hurt that bad
Her reaction to anything feminine is pretty negative so I’m afraid to even put that idea in her head
Smh take her advice 🤷🏽♂️ man up and let her know what you on
My mom went through my mail and found my nail polish that I ordered. She started getting mad saying that it wasn’t masculine and that “women wear nail polish” then she threw it away and said I can’t wear it. My mom has always made me feel unwanted and unwelcome throughout my life and I feel even more alienated because she wants me to fit into this generic masculine role and that’s just not me. I’m bi and feel afraid to tell her that because of how she’s previously reacted to me being even somewhat feminine.
Not sure if you're serious, but brush it off and don't care about what she thinks. It's easier said than done, but remember a lot of people are capable of not caring. So can you.
At the end of the day, it's 2020. Do what you want to do as long as it doesn't harm anyone, including yourself.