graduate college in a week
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Congrats. You are finally free.

Pray for yourself

What you do

tl;dr i stopped tolerating her disrespect

do you have a place to move too. If not do you have a friend to move into.
do have a sustainable job.
Can you cover your insurances and etc.

If you can't answer yes to all...you f'ed up.

i've done nothing that she doesn't allow other people to do with no problem
im speaking to my dad rn and he said hell take me in but idk how reliable that is

Your mom is very cut throat. I’ve been through it even though I would never do my child like that, it builds character if nothing else

i sacrificed so many advances in college to help her with my disabled brother now i got nothing to show for it and no place to go

After being at home with my parents for a week a couple weeks ago, I can say that you need to get out ASAP

Im in a similar position rn

My mom was about to kick me out just cause I was reselling shoes

just move in with your dad and focus your money on getting an apartment while you live with him

me moving out not the problem its the timing and the circumstances

yeah if shes not bluffing me its best i dip outta NY for a while

im always cautious reading s*** like this, we dont know the situation and you might be a s***ty person to her and shes done with your s***
also, she might be a s***ty parent and you dont deserve this
either way, its better to get on your way, and doesnt look like you have a choice. you´ll make it and be better off op, good luck

i dont do nothing she just the type of person to have to create a problem when everythings fine
not to say ive never been an a****** but never to her extent

Corny. Parents should never push their children out just because

pretty sure if your mom made this thread shed say some different s***
objectivity is not really possible in this case. and you shouldnt give a f*** what forum nerds think anyways.
i moved out of a toxic home, and it was hard, but i feel so much better now. you got this g,

i suppose its hard to convince people online but shes a terrible person, maybe i am too but i did more for her than any of my peers did for their parents
watching them have stability and i get thrown to the curb cuz of petty disagreements is painful my nigga

If you don’t mind me asking how old is your brother and what disability does he have?

i know bro. i worked in my familys restaurant for 3 years, 7 days a week no pay so they would pay so i could go to college in america. they broke their word, i didnt get s***. i was a f***ing slave for years for no reason.
it takes time to get over that s***, but what you did wasnt for nothing. youre learning valuable lessons, and its good you learn them early. it´ll save your life later on when you got more responsibilites, so you dont get trapped in a s***ty family.
try to not let it get to you, move out, and youll come out stronger on the other side. resentment doesnt get you anywhere. let it go and chase W´s king

14, autism

facts worst case scenario i stay with my dad for a few months and situate myself