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  • Kengi 💭
    Jun 6, 2023
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    Bandito

    Not saying it’s right but I wouldn’t put it in the same realm as homophobia. I think when women select a mate they look at a variety of factors but they all amount to security at the end of day.

    Women ultimately want to feel secure in a relationship and having to compete with both sexes is a lot.

    But yes, it can be considered discriminatory just based on the definition.

    Decent response cause its true. But were gettting past that stigma… with time… I hope
    for my bi friends

    20% of gen Z already identifying as lgbt
    Could be sooner than later

  • Jun 6, 2023
    PainPapi

    why dont men understand that us girls dont want to be with a man that likes d***

    check dms and you’ll see a d*** that you wouldn’t mind 😉

  • Jun 6, 2023

    While she a petty and lame person for outing someone like that, especially someone with mental health issues..

    That grown ass man knew what he was doing and knew the person he was dating. He should’ve known not only there was a chance she would find out but also be petty and expose him

    Like someone said, play stupid games and win stupid prizes

  • Jun 6, 2023
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    Bandito

    Not saying it’s right but I wouldn’t put it in the same realm as homophobia. I think when women select a mate they look at a variety of factors but they all amount to security at the end of day.

    Women ultimately want to feel secure in a relationship and having to compete with both sexes is a lot.

    But yes, it can be considered discriminatory just based on the definition.

    What competition lol why do people think being bi means you want to f*** everyone

  • Jun 6, 2023
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    Q3D

    What competition lol why do people think being bi means you want to f*** everyone

    Doesn’t mean it’s true but if you ask most women who say they wouldn’t date bi men they say it’s because of this.

    But let’s be real. Everyone would f*** everyone if they could get away with it. Just because some people don’t cheat or unable to get laid doesn’t mean they don’t wish they could. Societal stigma stops sexual freedom.

  • Jun 6, 2023

    That's some bullshit.

  • Jun 6, 2023
    Bandito

    Doesn’t mean it’s true but if you ask most women who say they wouldn’t date bi men they say it’s because of this.

    But let’s be real. Everyone would f*** everyone if they could get away with it. Just because some people don’t cheat or unable to get laid doesn’t mean they don’t wish they could. Societal stigma stops sexual freedom.

    Mmm no I don't think so

  • Jun 6, 2023
    Q3D

    What competition lol why do people think being bi means you want to f*** everyone

    Because humans are insecure as s***.

  • Jun 6, 2023
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    Bandito

    Doesn’t mean it’s true but if you ask most women who say they wouldn’t date bi men they say it’s because of this.

    But let’s be real. Everyone would f*** everyone if they could get away with it. Just because some people don’t cheat or unable to get laid doesn’t mean they don’t wish they could. Societal stigma stops sexual freedom.

    There are ppl in poly/open relationships that dont even rack up numbers like that (by choice) so this is another bad take of yours lmao

  • Jun 6, 2023
    Kengi

    Decent response cause its true. But were gettting past that stigma… with time… I hope
    for my bi friends

    20% of gen Z already identifying as lgbt
    Could be sooner than later

    The Agenda

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    insertcoolnamehere

    There are ppl in poly/open relationships that dont even rack up numbers like that (by choice) so this is another bad take of yours lmao

    What part specifically? Your response isn’t clear - what do you mean rack up numbers?

    It’s not so crazy to think that people would have way more sexual partners if they could.

    However, there are many factors that stop them from doing it such as: religion, stigma, current relationship, busy with work or life, and simply the ability to get laid.

    “When you put the data together, about 15-20% of married couples cheat. The rate of cheating increases with age for both married men and married women. In a study titled America's Generation Gap in Extramarital Affairs, 20% of older couples noted that they had cheated during their marriage.”

    Source: lovetoknow.com/life/relationships/rates-divorce-adultery-infidelity#:~:text=When%20you%20put%20the%20data,had%20cheated%20during%20their%20marriage

    This is why divorce rates are so high and open relationships are on the rise, combined with the prevalence of dating apps. People are simple they just want to get laid.

  • Jun 6, 2023
    SegaDreamFlash

    I deadass feel like most Niggas got that one guy even if they don’t admit it lol

    Ngl, Jon Hamm and Jake Gyllenhaal can get it

  • Gabrieljesus

    Went through his iPad and found out he’d being seeing other dudes.

    Now she’s outed it all over social media, he’s here crying and s*** his mental health was already shaky

    what age are these people 😭

  • Jun 6, 2023
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    Even though we've made some progress towards acceptance, I think some of you overestimate how "normal" being bi/gay is. Many people are comfortable to accept it at an arm's length, but once they find out their partner is into the same s***and it personally affects them, that acceptance goes out the window

  • Jun 6, 2023

    I’d say they’re even

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    BlueChew Sean

    Even though we've made some progress towards acceptance, I think some of you overestimate how "normal" being bi/gay is. Many people are comfortable to accept it at an arm's length, but once they find out their partner is into the same s***and it personally affects them, that acceptance goes out the window

    I don’t think not wanting to date someone bi/gay/lesbian equates with not being accepting

    Honestly man or women just stay single, no one is forcing you into a relationship. There is plenty of single straight people, you can’t rope someone into your life and be shielded from any responsibility. Just because you chose or wanted to keep up the aura of being in a relationship.. well that’s on you to deal with the responsibilities and challenges to come with it.

    If you think your sexuality is more private, that’s entirely okay… then you should be vetting those people in the talking stage.

    If someone is even suspect to be a bigot it’s pointless trying to pursue something more with them.

    I think society in general can present alot of dating challenges obviously, there’s people that look at a black person and automatically rule them out from ever dating. How much of that personal preference is due to the stigma/culture surrounding it? If your skin color is the stigma then you literally can’t hide it or lie. This isn’t to compare the two but there are unique challenges for everyone when it comes to dating scene. None of which is fair nor equal.

    It’s not fair nor right but it’s the reality of things like this. I’d imagine it’s even worse for LGBTQ people of color in their own communities, who take it from both sides.

  • Jun 6, 2023
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    afterimage

    I don’t think not wanting to date someone bi/gay/lesbian equates with not being accepting

    Honestly man or women just stay single, no one is forcing you into a relationship. There is plenty of single straight people, you can’t rope someone into your life and be shielded from any responsibility. Just because you chose or wanted to keep up the aura of being in a relationship.. well that’s on you to deal with the responsibilities and challenges to come with it.

    If you think your sexuality is more private, that’s entirely okay… then you should be vetting those people in the talking stage.

    If someone is even suspect to be a bigot it’s pointless trying to pursue something more with them.

    I think society in general can present alot of dating challenges obviously, there’s people that look at a black person and automatically rule them out from ever dating. How much of that personal preference is due to the stigma/culture surrounding it? If your skin color is the stigma then you literally can’t hide it or lie. This isn’t to compare the two but there are unique challenges for everyone when it comes to dating scene. None of which is fair nor equal.

    It’s not fair nor right but it’s the reality of things like this. I’d imagine it’s even worse for LGBTQ people of color in their own communities, who take it from both sides.

    I mean it is not accepting though. If they totally accepted it, why would they let it affect their relationship? "It's a preference" nah, there's a stigma there And people (especially women in the context we're discussing) just need to be fr about that

  • Jun 6, 2023
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    BVL

    fake thread right

    Yeah he’s a known troll

  • Jun 6, 2023

    Tell your friend to sue her

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    BlueChew Sean

    I mean it is not accepting though. If they totally accepted it, why would they let it affect their relationship? "It's a preference" nah, there's a stigma there And people (especially women in the context we're discussing) just need to be fr about that

    You ignored all my other points?

    If they upfront don’t want to be with a bi/gay/lesbian person then regardless if that’s a stigma or not it’s not your job to change them.

    Again… people of skin color don’t get that privilege, if you’re just arguing for the morality sake of whether straight people should willingly want be in a relationship with LBGTQ, that’s kind of fruitless because life doesn’t work like that. That’s like me getting on a soap box about how x,y,z doesn’t date black men and should because it’s morally right. Like…. What a waste of energy for what?

    I don’t think hiding it and tiptoeing around someone’s back is even a logical solution… again just stay single unless you find someone who understands you.

    So again I never said it’s fair or equal. But the justifying lying and hiding just because they are apart of the LGBTQ community isn’t a good take either.

    And you’re purposefully bringing more stress on yourself to keep up the image that you’re someone you’re not. Just stay single. Outside of certain circumstances there’s really no reason why someone just NEEDS to be in a relationship just for the sake of how society views them.

    The guy could’ve just as easily just rocked out single and not get another human involved in this.

  • Jun 6, 2023
    afterimage

    You ignored all my other points?

    If they upfront don’t want to be with a bi/gay/lesbian person then regardless if that’s a stigma or not it’s not your job to change them.

    Again… people of skin color don’t get that privilege, if you’re just arguing for the morality sake of whether straight people should willingly want be in a relationship with LBGTQ, that’s kind of fruitless because life doesn’t work like that. That’s like me getting on a soap box about how x,y,z doesn’t date black men and should because it’s morally right. Like…. What a waste of energy for what?

    I don’t think hiding it and tiptoeing around someone’s back is even a logical solution… again just stay single unless you find someone who understands you.

    So again I never said it’s fair or equal. But the justifying lying and hiding just because they are apart of the LGBTQ community isn’t a good take either.

    And you’re purposefully bringing more stress on yourself to keep up the image that you’re someone you’re not. Just stay single. Outside of certain circumstances there’s really no reason why someone just NEEDS to be in a relationship just for the sake of how society views them.

    The guy could’ve just as easily just rocked out single and not get another human involved in this.

    I only addressed that because otherwise, I largely agree with what you're saying I just think that it's not really acceptance if it's an issue for someone. Just because you don't say slurs and express outward hatred towards the community like some other people do, that doesn't mean you're fully accepting. It's just being a normal, decent human being

    It's like the white libs who really think they're doing something just because they're not saying the N word or donated to BLM but they lowkey still scared of black people. All the "It's just a preference" type excuses is a mask to cover up the underlying stigma imo. And yeah, it's not fair or right but that's the world we live in

  • Jun 6, 2023
    Knx

    Yeah he’s a known troll

    I’ve made like 5 threads stfu

  • Jun 6, 2023
    A Mad Ass Nigga

    Shouldn’t had been cheating tbh

  • Jun 6, 2023

    28 pages when all the important s*** was covered in the first 10 posts

  • Jun 6, 2023
    Kengi

    Happy pride month

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