All the things you listed.

She even got him arrested and banned from driving

He’s obviously played his part but what she did was unnecessary

Bro ain’t stable

Did you convince your friend to cheat, @op ?

Crazy how ur the only dude ITT who understands this

they're both terrible ppl tbh

You wrong cus there's plenty of people itt who are realizing they both sound like they in the wrong

Well because im gay. Personally I didnt have the worst experience

But you see it happen just talking to queer people. Not everybody ready to maybe not talk to his parents for several decades.

Woah dere

Its fax they both sound s***ty and should have never been in a relationship

If you gonna cheat then just don't get into a serious relationship. I stg we've been on this earth for so long and humanity as a collective still cheats

So glad me and my girl would never

op never wrote they were in a serious relationship tho
Quite the opposite you lot just all got your head running

Where did I say he was considerate?

What she did was just completely out of proportion.

They had a relationship. That is by default ''serious''. If it isn't you don't get into a real relationship y'all are just a fling or friends w/ benefits or whatever. It's not like it sounds like they were in an open relationship either or else OP wouldn't have even coined the term cheating in the first place

No Relationships can be super unserious man what

Op even said she knew he cheated

They were very serious

But very toxic

Lol OP just corrected you so just take the L brodie

"Very toxic"

He said they were very serious too

My case of ‘cheating’ was less serious we’d known each other about 3 weeks but all my s*** moves fast

These 2 been on and off 3 years

Saying relationships can be ''unserious'' is what's wrong with todays world tbh, just keep it casual then if you don't want to commit fully

A relationship that's unserious will NEVER flourish in the real world

Look I don't have details and what not of their relationship. OK? Now imagine this dude went to girls house met her parents and what not? She was emotionally abused. Dude was obviously stressing too with a double life. But like I said why drag another with you?

Yeah she probably will get way more sympathy than him and it is good OP is there for his brother and s***. Imagine if this was your sister or some bs .

Like if you want a fake girlfriend to cover up for your own sexuality get someone who is in it with you. Like bro should had known this was a possibility

Now he has to deal with this exploding on him when it could had been discussed in a heart to heart. Like I don't know bro it's just using another is what am not cool with.

how good did he dress before being in the closet and now forcible out of the closet?

"They been on and off for 3 years"

NAHH if she didnt find out he wasnt straight in 3 years 😭