i mean if you know her triggers then you know
but yeah it doesnt give her an excuse
should maybe handle your issues more healthy/calmly if possible so neither of you end up getting hurt, physically and emotionally
Sorry you went through that, OP. I think y'all should take some space & reconsider yalls issues alone & then reconvene after a few weeks.
break up with her lol
also i know its cliche as an answer but if her trauma is really that bad maybe yall should go to therapy, therapy for her trauma and impulse & ways for you too handle situations more calmly & how to not trigger
Childhood trauma is really f***ed up but as a grown adult you have to responsibility to work on that if you dont want to pass that trauma onto others
Congrats on the girlfriend dude
drop the b****
So you're in an abusive relationship with someone who will undoubtedly continue to do this to you.
Leave right now. Break it off and live a better life.
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I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you brother. My advice to you is get out of this relationship as fast as you can. I was in an abusive relationship too, with a girl I loved dearly. It wasn't physical at all until the end, but it was argument after argument over nothing.. I wanted to make it work, but when it becomes physical enough was enough.
I ended up breaking up with her after she did something crazy in front of all of our friends. While I was driving her home, she freaked out and began punching me repeatedly in the face while I was driving on a highway and we were both tipsy. I had to pull her hair in order to get her to stop.. That was THE end of the line for me. I never imagined myself laying a hand on a woman (That was my first and last time doing so), but I had to in order to save us both from possibly dying from a car crash. After that I was done. You don't want things to reach that point, trust me my man.